why do i always seem to picked the ones that treat me like crap..it's just so unfair...
2007-07-13 11:42:49 · 35 answers · asked by bubbles** 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
today i asked out a guy but he said he dosent date stupid immature girls...
why was he soo harsh
2007-07-13 11:43:46 · update #1
i think guys think that they can kind of take advantage of girls .
& that they can treat them like crap & then be like i like you now, lets go out .
you know ?
obviously you wouldnt want to go out with somebody like him ..
you`re probably have the same problem as me . haha .
going for the 'bad' boys .(:
but hey, not all of them are mean ..
i think you just haven`t found the right one .. theres lots of nice guys out there .
you just have to look hard for them(:
2007-07-13 11:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are out there. You should re-assess what qualities you use to find a mate.
With regards to the guy who said you are immature, perhaps you are younger than him or perhaps he's a jerk for letting you do not so smoothly.
Nonya: I'm sure a dolt like you would write instinct now I know why you would think they were EXTINCT there's not a nice guy in the world that would fall for a stupid girl, they may over-look physical beauty after all they are nice, but stupidity is a whole different issue.
2007-07-13 11:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys get to the point where they laugh when they hear this question.
Look at your best guy friend, I be the reason you're such good friends with him is because he's a nice, good guy. He might just like you a little bit more than just as a friend, and it probably hurts him a little every time you ask him "where are all the nice guys?" and he knows that he is the nice guy, but you keep ignoring it and keep getting hurt by jerks that he could have spotted a thousand miles away.
Good Luck
2007-07-13 11:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Prez04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends on how old you are, and how old the guys you ask out are. If there is a bit of an age gap, it may not work. Be sure to ask a guy out that you know is nice and would care for you. Don't try to go out with a guy because he is good looking, but for who he is. By the way, I'm, a nice guy.
2007-07-13 11:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sgt.Pepper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for a "Type" stop... thats your first mistake is that you keep looking for the same type.. look at your past dating profile and see if they all have something in common... most likely they do.. try something different.. all those guys that you would never give the time of day to because they dont "Look" like what you would go for.. take a chance go for them.. I did.. and I'm no engaged to the most wonderful man.
2007-07-13 11:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he got dumped or he's gay.He also sounds immature.The nice guys are to boring remember,we ask you out,and you say no!.Some girls love to be with drug abusers.They think they can help them.It's hard work finding a nice guy he is normal,and silent,does not stand out in a crowd.Walk up to him and get to know him,if he is polite to you, then you found a NICE GUY,just don't don't tell anyone,so you can have him for your self.
2007-07-13 11:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by PaulyM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are nice guys out there and you have to keep that in mind because dating can be very frustrating and you hav to be patient. It also depends on where you go to meet guys. If you go to a bar..you gunna meet a guy who is a drunk and drinks to erase his troubles away. If you go to a park you re gunna meet a guy who enjoys nature or who likes to excersice etc.. If you go to church you're gunna find a guy who is spiritual and faithful. You to places that say something about your personality and that of the guy you wanna meet. Don't worry youll find him.
2007-07-13 11:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by crtl alt del x72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men turn to dirt once they got you. They think, Oh, now i have the girl I can focus on my career or sports or something. That's why men are the cause of almost all divorces. They are LAZY in love...
I thought I had met my soul mate, my lover and best friend. He has been Lazy in Love since we moved in together. No kisses, no hugs, barely any sex. Never wants to talk about our relationship or fixing the differences we have. Men suck. Some just take longer to show their true colours.
2007-07-13 11:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All the nice guys got tried of getting screwed by girls who treated them like crap and didn't appreciate them.
2007-07-13 11:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by cy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry about today, but I'm right here. j/k
Look for what your attracted in that guy and maybe that's the problem? You're attracted to *******? I have no idea, but good luck finding someone.
2007-07-13 11:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by quicksilver7537 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋