We never get along when she comes to my house and my parents don't do anything about it and her parents don't do anything about it. No adults are here right now and it's just me and her. We're both teens in high school. My friend just called and thenmy cousins all like " I need to get on the phone, so you need to get off" and saying stuff like "you can't be on the computer and phone at the same time". So, I'm just sitting there talking to her quietly and trying to keep my cool and talking to her in a quiet voice like "okay, please just leave me alone, I don't feel like being bothered right now and you weren't even thinking about the phone until my friend called" and she was like "you better get off the phone before I have to get on the phone and tell your friend to hang up and I need to use the phone" ...okay now I'm getting really pissed off and just want to punch her right there!!!!! And she was calling me names like B**** S*** and ho and we were going back and forth....read below
2007-07-13 11:41:33 · 8 answers · asked by Chicago 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
And I didn't want my friend to hear us arguing over the phone so I just told my friend I had to go. So, I expected it to be over right then. But she took the phone and was like "you're a *****, that's what you are and I'm goin to your room *****!" and she ran up to my room and I was chasing her and she hurried up and locked the door. So now she locked herself in my room and is saying sh** like,"your clothes look good on me!" WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-13 11:44:52 · update #1
The only thing keeping me from fighting her is that, it won't just be like regular cousins or sisters and brothers fight, I will fight her like she's not even family and I'm not playing with her. And I don't know how I'm gonna explain it to my aunt and uncle and my parents, when they get home...should i still do it?
2007-07-13 11:49:52 · update #2
Are you both 6? Stop acting so immature and when she is gone sit your mother down and tell her again what happened. Ask her to tell you what you should do. If she doesn't have an answer tell her that you really need her help because you feel overwhelmed and that no one cares that this cousin is bullying you and abusing your things.
Someone someplace must have told you that fighting isn't ladylike nor appropriate for a civilized society. If not, ask your mother.
2007-07-13 12:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, getting all worked up , is what she wants you to do, Just find something else to do and let it go, If she does any damage to your things, it will be proof enough that she is the one with a problem, Then let your parents straighten it out.
2007-07-13 11:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat that ***** up and teach her a lesson that she cant mess with u and if your aunt and uncle want to now why u did it tell them what she did and all the names she was calling u
2007-07-13 11:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by ??????????? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
enough is enough, tell her like it is. She's in your house and she needs to respect that and if she can't, take her outside and beat the snot out of her.
2007-07-13 11:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by diablo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get out of your room.
2007-07-13 11:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are not helping yourself, who will help you? just tell her to get out of the house and don't take her in. that's all.
2007-07-14 01:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by dattusing p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 reason with her an if that doesn't work ignore her and if that doesn't help then beat her up cuz she deserves it!
2007-07-13 11:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by stormy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
BEAT HER DAMN ***!!!
2007-07-13 11:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋