Is there really a fine line between love and hate??
i have known this guy for a while and sometimes when we let our guard down we a very affectionate to each other and sweet other times we will do anythingto piss the other off if we are angry why is this?????
2007-07-13 11:26:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is a SELFISH love , then YES, it is a very FINE line.
2007-07-13 11:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We hurt the one we love. I think we feel that in a committed relationship it's safe to lash out. We know each other is not going to leave over this or love less in the long run. It's safer to hurt that loved one than a friend or other family member. Thus, the fine line. Other than that, if you hate someone, seriously dislike them, I don't see a fine line.
2007-07-13 12:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Self idyllic worship= love -defined as the feeling one has when they believe they are the ideal companion for someone else. It is not about the other person so much as it is about the person in love. As example "I love you" begins with the word "I" which is exactly what I am getting at. This is why and how one person can be in love and the other person not. This love is not about the feeling of responsibility one feels toward another. It is the feeling of how one feels about themselves for the other person. Love is not responsibility. Compatibility and responsibility are what long term relationships are about. Loosing someone who has been responsible to you is very emotionally painful because the fact is most simply do not care for another to show it through actions! Hate is the selfish declaration of "moral authority" over someone else. Moral authority is not a valid concept as there is not such thing. Hate often occurs when someone removes their gift of caring for someone else. Hate is often retaliatory.
2007-07-13 16:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by wapermaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There is really no fine line between love and hate.
2007-07-13 11:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Louise Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you both feel for each other very strongly but don't want to let on that you do. So when you are affectionate you get really close then you feel like you have done something wrong and get aggravated with each other and do anything to get that person mad.
2007-07-13 11:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by [ zodiac ] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think there is a fine line between love and hate...but that's just my opinion
2007-07-13 11:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by April R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is what it is whatever it is, hate is REACTION on some kind of pain or lost. Both can be layered and measured. In theory its possible to love without hate, but in practice its hard not to react, do you agree?
2007-07-13 11:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by timekiller unlimited 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋