sleeping together yet?"...( should i have said, what i thought..."that is rude"...and not answer????)....i just said...No and walked away...how appalling??? what is your take on that personal question?????
2007-07-13 11:22:35 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Smile at the person sweetly and say:
THAT'S PERSONAL!!
Then change the subject.
2007-07-13 11:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how close you are. If my oldest friends asked, I'd probably tell because I know them well enough to trust them. I imagine though you haven't known this person 20 years. If you feel the question is rude and your friends don't know that you would think that, they obviously don't know you as well as they think they do. You're never obligated to tell anyone anything about your personal life that makes you feel uncomfortable. You should tell them that you feel the question is rude if that's how you really feel.
Its not uncommon for friends to share that kind of information but it is by no means necessary for friendship.
2007-07-13 19:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by April C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that ur friend expects you to tell them everything that is going on in your life..including anything personal..isn't that what friends are for? To tell your deepest darkest secrets to? I think that yes..it may have been a little appalling...but i think u also did the right thing. It does depend on how close u were. I still think u did the right thing. U had the right reaction b/c it seemed to bother you.
2007-07-13 19:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Raspberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since so many people don't have a problem talking about their sex lives, this person probably didn't think they were being rude. Just tell them that it's none of their business.
2007-07-13 18:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if the person is your friend,then there is nothing rude about it,but if you find it embarrassing to answer than just dont.but i dont see why would that be such a sensitive subject,i mean whats so bad about 2 people sleeping together?sex is normal,(almost) everybody do it,AND its beautiful.so whats the problem? ; )
2007-07-13 20:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rude of someone to ask. I would probably say something like this: "Do you always ask highly personal questions that are none of your business?"
2007-07-13 18:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well it depends i personally could ask my friends that and they could ask me depending on how good of friends but if i didnt want to answer i would say thats personal but i dont think its really rude
2007-07-13 18:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have said that's none of your business then changed the subject
2007-07-13 19:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for me if one of my friends asked me that I would shock the crap outta then and make up a real big fat story, Yeah we did it and he handcuffed me and we slept in a dungeon and he called me a Goddess, You would not believe how kinky he really is and how much I adore him...
2007-07-13 18:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by free_mark53 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say "a gentleman/lady never tells"
people are curious. they'll only ask questions that they think you'll answer. you probably gave signals that you wanted that question asked.
2007-07-13 18:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by joe the man 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋