Is it because they dont care ?
2007-07-13 09:02:06 · 22 answers · asked by D 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Ok i dont even know my mum, sis or brothers birthday. Sorry.
2007-07-13 09:11:53 · update #1
Sarge927 im impressed and i mean that.
2007-07-13 09:15:01 · update #2
Oh dink2925 dates dont bother me it all its only a question. Settle.
2007-07-13 09:19:08 · update #3
We do remember important dates. The cup final, the battle of hastings and our best friends parole hearing!
2007-07-13 09:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why do some women obsess on birthdays, anniversaries and Valentine's day without seeing the big picture?
I've been married for 29 years, and during that time, sometimes my husband remembers "important" dates, and sometimes he doesn't. But he gets me presents and does nice things for me all the time, he treats me with love and respect, and we enjoy each other's company. I love him and there's no one else I'd rather be with.
If the man or men you are referring to are nice to you all the time, why obsess about "special" dates? Which would you rather have: a man who is nice to you all the time and does special things for you all the time, or a man who treats all the days except the "special" ones as ordinary?
2007-07-13 10:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Karin C 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they have a lot more to deal with than when to send Birthday and Christmas cards...why is it so important to remember such things...does the fact someone sends you a card on a particular day mean more than a man working his life for you, being there when you need support...It all seems to have been blown out of all proportion...so we forget dates, big deal, does not mean we don't care...it means less to a man than a woman...I have lots of male friends and other than my own twin brother I have no idea at all when their birthday is, does that mean I don't like them or they don't like me...no way.
2007-07-13 09:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Knownow't 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We care, but sadly we care a lot about the unimportant stuff too. Not too many people ask me civil war dates, or about the Napoleonic wars...but hell, I know those before my families birthdays. Its hard to choose what you will remember, often it is just a mish mash of stuff that you hold onto for no good reason at all.
2007-07-13 09:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by David B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that I know quite a few that remember important dates, Birthdays, Anniversaries, appointments etc and I'm one of those men.....
2007-07-13 09:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Magic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 04:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by serravalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do to remember important dates as follows:
World Series Dates
Super Bowl Dates
Independence Day
March Madness week
NBA and Stanley Cup Dates
etc.
The key word here is important.
2007-07-13 09:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by rob c 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Kind of using a broad brush to paint all men, aren't you? In addition, what do you consider an important date, the date you painted your toenails? And, yeah, they probably don't give a rat's a** about such things.
2007-07-13 09:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
We do remember, the problem is our important dates differ to your important dates!
2007-07-13 09:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by 2bitnobody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i resent that statement, I always remember Important dates. Can only remember my birth date at the moment, But that's an important date to me.
2007-07-13 09:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by john m 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋