what does all this mean?

Question

me and my bf have been goin out for a few weeks now and he doseint return my emails anymore and idk if i should dump him!!cause say we love eacther but i dont feel like he loves me.and part of me wants to keep goin wit him and the other part of me wants to dump him!what should i do?and when he dosent return my emails or calls it makes me think hes cheatin on me! do yall think he is

Answer 1

Don't try to contact him for a while and if he doesn't try to get in touch with you then you know what it means. Drop him and move on. Don't waste your time life is too short.

Answer 2

Been there. He's either dating someone else or taking you for granted. Either way, it's not a good situation and it sounds like he's already considering moving to another relationship.

To make sure and to satisfy both sides of your emotions, call or write him. Tell him you're not happy with how things are and that if you don't hear from him within the next week, you're going to start dating other people.

Yeah, I know that sounds kind of cold, but if he's just taking you for granted, he needs a wake up call. If he's cheating on you, he'll know you're not a push over or fool.

Answer 3

You love him after a couple of weeks? I can speak from a guys perspective and say that if a girl said she loved me that soon I would not return e-mails or calls either. You are not that far into the relationship, so if you aren't happy, peace out and move on. Don't waste your time over petty crap.

Answer 4

There could be a possibility that its going to end... soon.
If you are willing to work on it and you love him you should read this one book called "The 5 languages of love" by Gary Chapman. You two might just need to "tell" what each other needs from one another. Sounds like you need it.

Answer 5

I'm not so sure about whether he's cheating on you or not.
You should call him, and if he doesn't answer the phone, leave him a voicemail asking him what's going on. Include that you feel he is ignoring you.
He might just be busy.
Don't break up with him before talking to him about it first.

Answer 6

You have only been going out a few weeks. Slack off a little bit and don't suffocate him. There is no way you love each other. You barely know each other.

Answer 7

It isn't a given that his failure to respond to your emails means he is cheating. However, it does follow that his failure to respond to your emails indicates a problem and suggests that he is a bad, non-communicative boyfriend. I'm not suggesting you play games with him. Therefore, unless there is something fantastic about him that you haven't posted here, I think I would make one more good, rational attempt to communicate and then, assuming he fails to respond satisfactorily, I would start updating my dating resume.

Answer 8

ask him why he doesn't return your emails. you should talk about this with him before making a big decision like dumping him. i mean, maybe he could be busy at work.

Answer 9

Lack of spaces and capitalisation makes your post difficult to follow.

Stop calling him.
Stop e-mailing him.

If he doesn't call/e-mail you within 2 weeks, drop him and start dating someone else.

He's saying he loves you, not because he does, but because you want to hear it, and he knows it makes you feel good about him.

Answer 10

i think its impossible to LOVE someone after only a couple of weeks.. so no, i dont think he loves you.. and if he wont respond to you then break up with him... dont put up with no ones bs cuz then you'll find over time you put up with a little bit more and a little bit more and a little bite more till you just dont know what you will and wont put up with anymore..