Since I can't be there, I'd rather her be the stripper to see if my fiance bites the bait. I think I'm doing him a favor too.. he's saving lots of money. It's sneaky but is it wrong?
2007-07-13 08:15:13 · 30 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I heard women sleep with the men if the pay is right.. isn't that true?
2007-07-13 08:21:36 · update #1
Don't worry i'll go in as your mole and set up everyone! BTW... when is the party?
2007-07-13 23:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by jamel_saves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the different mans better halves are telling there husbands No strippers i could provide then a hand. Strippers are a disrespecting and demoralizing factor to females people that ninety % of the time the female are on drugs or alcohol just to get on degree to do there act. in case you're so unhappy approximately your husbands bachelor social gathering cancel your stripper and have a joint social gathering and flow out clubbing with each and all the marriage social gathering and close acquaintances? purely a theory you the two could have a blast including your individuals once you're the two technically single and because the two one in each of you would recognize what the different is doing there will be no destiny battles related to the Bachelor social gathering or Stag. it is extremely easy that bachelor events that have in contact a stripper club or a private dancer have ended marriages as a results of fact the spouse feels she can not believe her husband if something occurred till now the special occasion. Alot of fellows stress there acquaintances to get busy with a hooker or a stripper as a results of fact they are like it is your final night of singlehood? think of if it wasn't for his married acquaintances and there better halves they could be pressuring him into something like it is that what you like?
2016-11-09 05:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by lauramore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do...Let's hope your friend wouldn't, for a lot of reasons!
I'd have to vote for no on hiring your friend. First of all, considering that both of you will have to keep looking her in the face, you'll avoid a whole bunch of potential future embarrassment if she's not there. For another thing, if you really trust your fiance, and you're okay with him having a stripper, it's best to just leave it at that, and try to avoid learning the details of what happens during the evening.
2007-07-13 08:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
being honest i hate the whole stripper thing too...i've seen these girls in action (not suggesting their all the same before someone jumps down my throat!) but i've made it bloody clear im not up for my fella havin one! the thought of men under the influence of alcohol and a stripper does make me uncomfortable! hiring your friend is the sort of thing that would cross my mind! but i've also been realistic and knew i'd be doing it to try and be sneaky and see how far he would go...and its asking for trouble before your even married. me and my partner marry in 9wks, we've talked about wot we're both comfortable and not comfortable with, and at the end of the day, if your marryin each other you have to go on trust, tell him how u feel and if he respects you and cares about you enough which im guessing he must if your to be married then hopefully he will respect this. my partner has made it clear he does not want strippers, and i dont think he does cos he would'nt like me to! dont hire your friend cos if he ever finds out its quite humiliating knowin you did that.....relax, trust and talk...and hopefully you will both have a good nite and good future! good luck :0)
2007-07-13 11:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by madmum79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is so wrong... Do you trust you fh? So what if you cant be there.. Give him the benifit of the doubt... It is a party celebrating his last days a "single" man... Not a I am gonna get laid night.. He is having fun with his friends making a fool of theirselves.. Let him enjoy his night..
and what do you think will happen if he finds out about the stripper being your friend.. He will I can promise you.. To many people talk.. All I can say is it wont look pretty.. And he will think you dont trust him and wonder if he can trust you..
2007-07-13 08:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the most manipulative, immature, nontrusting idea I think I've ever heard. If you can't trust your fiance not to sleep with a stripper, then you shouldn't be getting married. Grow up and get over your insecurities first.
2007-07-13 08:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do something like this? Is this the kind of a person you are, that you would send a spy into his party? This is how you're going to start your marriage, with deception and lies? If you don't trust the man, why marry him? Hopefully, he'll find you out before long. You're not mature enough to be anyone's wife.
2007-07-13 08:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to hire someone to watch him, you must be insecure or he's already been untrust worthy. Why would get married if there is no trust between you two? After all with out trust you won't be married for long, it's the whole basis of love.
2007-07-13 08:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by gypsey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your additional details "I heard strippers sleep with the guy if they pay enough" If this is your concern, and you honestly think your husband might pay a stripper for sex, or have sex with a stipper even if someone else paid, why the h@ll are you marrying him?
2007-07-13 08:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think at this point of the relationship if you have to test him, you ultimately dont trust him. It might be a way for you to express your nervousness for the wedding. Give him a break and let him have his night and if the relationship is meant to be he wont throw away his fututre for a one night stand with a stripper
2007-07-13 08:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by Lana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two hours ago, you had a boyfriend cheating on you with his motorcycle. Now you have a fiance.
Advice: Find better things to do with your life than being a troll.
2007-07-13 09:16:46 · answer #11 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋