If a girl lets say me, likes you. & you are flirting with me, and I dont respond or look at you.. does it turn you off? If a guy trys to make me smile & I dont, do you guys get mad?
What if the guys knows I like him?
2007-07-13 08:12:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean sometimes I actually do flirt back. But the majority of the time I'm afraid cause I think he likes another girl ..
2007-07-13 08:16:44 · update #1
By failing to respond to flirtation, you are likely making the guy feel as though the attention he’s giving you is unwelcome and cause him to stop giving you such attention out of respect.
2007-07-13 08:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I am flirtatious with you and you give absolutly no response or I try and make you laugh and again with no response then that could be considered a really good hint that you are not in the least bit intrested and making a good effort to ignore me. And in turn I would have the the good sense to respectfully leave you alone.
And if they guy knows you like him. . . for example lets say that I know you like me but I still get no response when I flirt or try to get at least a smile out of you. That would tell me that either you are scared stiff to talk to me or someone lied to me about you liking me.
So if you do that to everyone including the guy you really like then you may want to loosen up a bit. relax and try not to be emotionless. You get a better response if you smile and laugh along with us.
2007-07-13 15:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd leave. Being totally unresponsive is not a good way to get a guy. I'd think you were a stuck-up snob if I was flirting with you, etc. and you just sat there.
2007-07-13 15:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy does not not u like him he will stop and not pursue you but if a guy knows u like him he will go ahead and flirt with you for eternity. lol
2007-07-13 15:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile or something. No reaction is a sure fire way to be left alone. Then he will tell his boys that you are stuck up and they will not approach you. Very nasty.
2007-07-13 15:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by $$ bLatAntLy fLagRant $$ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like th guy than you would be having fun with him when you could...dont take moments like that for granted and live them up..be real with him...have fun...and be yourself...let the guy know u like him and remind him y.
2007-07-13 15:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Hawaii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep, if I was flirting with you and you did not respond, I would take that as a rejection and leave.
2007-07-13 15:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Matt - 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, with that responses to a guy, you'd definitely move him away, he'd clearly understand that you are not interested with him and him being a smart guy would move on...
2007-07-13 15:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your playing too hard to get. We see "she is not interested, must be a lesbian".
2007-07-13 15:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Freddy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to respond somehow....a postive response tells us you're approachable.
2007-07-13 15:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋