I am a scientist working in the UK. I am Indian and told I am extremely attrtactive.Everywhere I go I find men looking at me (maybe they think I look exotic) but they never seem to talk to me. And the few who do flee when they hear I am a Scientist. I am very curious to know why this is- is it my ethnicity or my qualification or both!!! I would love to hear your thoughts as i am begining to think i am never going to find anyone!!
2007-07-13 07:30:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm an engineer... Find someone that is as intelligent as yourself!
But just have patience... No rush. If you're "extremely attractive" it won't be long before something happens for you...
2007-07-13 07:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a mix of both. Being very attractive as you mention can be intimidating to a lot of men. Also, being an accomplished scientist can also be intimidating. Men might feel insecure about you being more successful than them or that because you are attractive they don't have a chance with you. Men tend to react emotionally on their initial observation of you and would probably like you if they got over their pride a little. Just so you know, I'm a 25 male (straight) and just have a little insight through self-analysis. I hope this will help a little. I look forward to speaking more with you.
2007-07-13 14:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by scott26us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar field (physics major) and I find that it's usually the guys I wouldn't want to date in the first place that are running away. More than a few times I've been at parties or dinners where I've found myself engaged so deeply in a technical conversation with a guy that when I wandered away he left his date to continue the conversation.
I mean what guy doesn't want to talk tech then have scorching hot sex afterward? Then roll over and get his butt beat at god of war...
2007-07-13 14:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by kelli B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I dont think ethnicity plays a role here, i mean your a smart women, dont ever think that you profession has got something to do with this guys here,, i mean if they are affraid of your qualifications then they are not ment for you,, i dont think you have to think about ethnicity anymore, im indian myself and i dont see how that will affect how i will become in a relationships,,, there is plenty of guys who loves women with brains,,,,,, i like women who are into cosmology, and a little nerdish,, but will i get one ? nope its nature which will choose for me, so keep an open mind,,,,,,, hmmmm anyway do you beleive in mutliverse ?
2007-07-13 14:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by truthfinder31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sexy scientist.....you are right out of a movie...
sounds like it could be intimidation, but who wants them weak guys anyway...
This might be the first time I wished I lived in the UK.
2007-07-13 14:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a scientist too and would find you even more attractive as a result. Let me see, you are extremely smart and very attractive, they might be repulsed by your lack of modesty?
2007-07-13 14:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If guys run when they here your profession...then thats their problem....and i reccomend...dont tell them unles they ask..but u can go up to guys more...dont play the tradtional "girl" role...be the hot girl that aint afraid to go up to poeple.
2007-07-13 14:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Hawaii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itellange is great and beauty is a bonus u got both of them and thats a twofer
2007-07-13 14:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
intimiditing! lol a chick smarter than a man really threathens his manliness. lol you gotta make it look like youve fallen for their charms... dont care if you hav to pretend. lol
2007-07-13 14:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they fear you because of your knowledge, you are too Superior for them
2007-07-13 14:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by capricorn-saturn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋