my best guy friend hasnt talk to me in like 3 weeks...why doesnt he want to talk to me? i think its because of his girlfriend..like on messanger he doesnt say hi or on myspace he doesnt send a message...but when i send a im or a message he doesnt write back and he signs off...is he mad at me?
2007-07-13 07:21:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not mad at you. He probably trying to preserve his relationship with his girlfriend. A lot of women are not cool with their man's female friends. Especially ones that they feel threatened by or feel are being disrespectful of their relationships. If you keep trying to talk to him you will make him feel like he has to choose and (trust me) he will not choose you. Leave him alone and wait until he feels it is "safe" for you two to talk. He will reach out to you when he misses your friendship.
2007-07-13 07:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that your male friend is mad at you. The number one main reason why he isn't talking to your right now is because of his girlfriend. She probably has some insecurities when he is around other females, and this is a problem that she has to solve on her own. They are not married and he is not her property, so therefore, she does not control his life. Try talking to your male friend on the phone, text message him, or leaving him a voice mail message. If he was the kind of friend that you would have in your life, he would respond back and explain what is going on. If he doesn't try and return your phone calls, the best thing that you can do for yourself is to leave him alone. This will be hard, but keep in mind that you don't deserve a friend that will ignore you just because he's with someone else now. Good luck.
2007-07-13 14:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woo, join the club. It's probably the girlfriend. If he's like my guy friend that won't talk to me, he's probably worried that if he starts talking to you he's going to end up falling in love with you and that would just ruin things with the girl he's dating, who is most likely the kind of girl who'll have sex with him after one week, whereas you most likely aren't. Or maybe not, but because I'm bitter and angry, I assume anyone in a similar situation is having the same problems.
2007-07-13 14:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kahlen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anna get the hint. He does not want you. He has a girlfriend. Now move on... There are other fish in the sea! He's taken..back off!
2007-07-13 14:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know! I don't think he is mad at you! You should probably just go up to him and ask him what is wrong! He may be going through a hard time! I really don't know! All I know is that you shoudl talk it out with him!
2007-07-13 14:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by mabekah m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be having problems with his G-Friend because of you so he is silently trying to avoid you. he doesn't want to answer why,, cause he doesn't know what to tell you. He's your best friend so its probably embarrassing to tell you that his gf is trppin over you.
2007-07-13 14:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by pumkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is blowing u off then he isn't Worth getting mad over. if i have a problem wit mi friends i try and talk it out, but he isn't reply in b/c so he probably doest consider yall's friendship important. but just 4get about it and if he does really care den he will talk to u.
2007-07-13 14:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Balla23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should approach him face to face or call him on the telephone. Tell him you're concerned about your friendship and would like to salvage it if at all possible. First and foremost, ask him what it is you've done wrong (if anything).
2007-07-13 14:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tatyana K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a number of reasons... probly his gf b*tched or something. my personal expierance i did that to my friend cause i started to have deep feelings for her and knew it wouldnt work so i tryed to just forget her. guys do stupid things for stupid reasons you just have to deal with it or move on. if you still want his friendship just be ready for it if and when he comes back but at the same time dont hold your breath.
2007-07-13 14:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by skrilla gorrilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like either the new GF is jealous...or else he used to like you (more than friends) but now he has a new girl.
2007-07-13 14:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by Get Your Ex Back 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋