My Boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We believe we are both ready to have sex, and are virgins. but I have to admit that I am very scared of it hurting and such. We do hope someday that we get married, but we are eachothers first love and it probably wont be another 4 or 5 years until we do get married. I think that sex will bring us a lot closer to eachother, Ive heard that when you are with the one you love, sex doesn't hurt because it is so passionate. We have done other things, but not sex, and the closer we get to sex, the closer we are getting to eachother. so my questions are, how long does it usualy take for the first time, like, how many hours should you expect this whole first experience to last? and what position is going to be the most passionate, and where is a good place and time for a first time like this?
2007-07-13 06:41:26 · 13 answers · asked by Lacey B. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both you keep in mind because you already know:
You don't have to take your close off to have a good time - Oh no.
I had known my childhood sweetheart since I was in the 7th grade. By the time we made it to the proper age to date, I was 16. We did the same as you, but we didn't have sex till we married when I was 20 on our honeymoon. We where patient with each other, and when that time came- It was very special to the both of us. Keep on Smiling!!
2007-07-13 07:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are living in a fantasy. If you want to marry the person that you are with first, then you should wait until you are married. There is no promise that having sex is going to bring you closer together. In fact, in some cases, it can make you bull apart, not together. Wait until you are married.
2007-07-13 06:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you guys have been together and are ready for this - I dunno how old you guys are but I'm assuming the best - the first time a man has sex will be a pretty quick experience - he will not last long because it is all new to him - the key is to go slow, this will benefit you and him - a good time and place will all take care of itself when the time is right but make sure he wears a condom, hell make him wear 2 it might help him last longer - good luck
2007-07-13 06:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hours? That's funny. Since he's virgin too it will probably take seconds for the whole thing to be over. I'm betting you two are teenagers and the obvious answer is you aren't as ready as you think. I'd wait or next you'll be on here asking us if we think you are pregnant.
2007-07-13 06:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait a little longer. Because once you have sex you cant do anything more passionate with each other so then you might loose some of your feelings for each other.
2007-07-13 06:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by Hillary Nance 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If both virgins, it will hurt for you. It's the 1st time your vagina is being pentrated and stretched. Plus the hymen(cherry) will break, and that will hurt and may bleed.
His 1st time will feel sooo good he will almost squirt when coming in contact with your vagina.
He'll have fun and enjoy, you might not.
2007-07-13 06:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 03:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by ramswaroop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well well .... go for it lol ... it just gets better ... it doesnt hurt just a slight pain... go for it without fear... time depends on ones passion for sex.... try a lot of sexual c\dances and talks and massages and kisses and mainly a lot of foreplay which increases sexual passion and pleasure.......... uve got books and websites too on sex and pleasure..... the best time is wen ur the mst horny or mostly night.... the best place is in ur bed room... or even in the hotel tilet will be the best place its ur wish
do it wit utmost fun and liking and u'll enjoy it lol.... happy f******..............................
2007-07-13 06:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by sexy guy 1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your too young, then you wouldnt want to do it now...WAIT. but if your age of consent then: you might wanna start with him fingering you, so that he can loosen you up a lilttle so that it wont hurt as bad...or he can just take it slow and gentle going in. it will last as long as you guys want it to. i personally like the bedroom, for the first time i liked me laying down with the guy on top of me, not laying on me, cause he might be too heavy for you, but just on top of you taking it slow and easy and gently inserting. hope i helped?
2007-07-13 06:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by -Jess.<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK first time...it goes for as long as you want it to go! its more fun if u figure out the positions as u go on. and a good place would be like a hotel or sumthin. good time-whenever ur ready! good luck!
2007-07-13 06:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by GOPOPE777 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋