Since I found myself lost in the storms of life, every living being close to me told me, hang on, there will be change. I hanged on believing them like a child that change will come and u all know it came,with all pomp and show....but scattered the remaining **** and bits of me, faaaar n wide. Change came...bad turned into worst,living turned dead, dreams turned nightmare......Now wat next frnds ? Will u again say, Change will come? I am scared of change...coz from here where ?????????????
2007-07-13 06:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by Leena 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The only time change doesn't come in life is after you die. Change is the way of life, without change there is only stagnation. If you don't like something about your life, change what you don't like. For instance, if you don't like being alone, make an effort to be where there are other people and interact with them. You make the choice everyday when you get up whether it will be a good day or a bad day, even if you do it unconsciously. Stop and look at all the good things around you, they are there if you look for them; the smile of a child, the bloom of a flower, the animal shape a cloud makes in the sky. Make a commitment to smile at the first 10 people you meet every day. Change doesn't have to be bad, sometimes being good or bad lies in your perception of the change.
2007-07-19 16:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes change will always come and theres nothing you can do to stop it. A child has to grow into an adult.it doesnt mean youve lost your little baby and now their gone from home.It means that they have grown and they have lived. We all must die but how dead are we really. the truth is we dont know what is to come from day to day. All you can have is hope and faith. it doesnt matter in what but in something. yeah you can do the life sucks. or when life gives you lemons make lemonade.when it really comes down to it the change of wether its good or bad how bad and how good is up to you.you may have lost allot but there is still allot more that you could loose. it doesnt matter what you had or what you could have cause you aint got it. it matters what you have and how you hold to your heart. and only you can decide as to where from here.
2007-07-13 06:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by zourvina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is ok The scared thing is not knowing whats going to happen. And all people can tell you is to hold on because there is nothing at all they can do for you. Get your mind off of Negative even if it is. Know this Bad dont last always The sun has to come out
2007-07-21 03:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes change will come in time, say a pray and god will help thru thick and thin, I have had thing change in life some were bad and alot good it takes time change doesnt happen over night. Give it a chance.
2007-07-21 03:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by liz h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a big believer that life is a roller coaster. I have had some really, really horrible things happen in my life. However, I have known them to always eventually get better. Yes, they do sometimes get worse beforehand, but things have a way of evening themselves out.
There will be change. And it will, eventually, get better. It just takes time and hope.
2007-07-13 06:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is always hard, it is different, but we adapt and everything happens for a reason, and everything can happen because of a reason, you can change your own life as wel, good luck, try and find out what problems are in change alot of times we dont even know
2007-07-19 07:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by serious sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i struggle with the aid of a metamorphosis. Granted it is not from drugs, or faith, and that i've got continually had an interest in studying new issues. i replaced into the main bodily lively geek there replaced into. I enjoyed to be lively. to flow out and do issues... choose for a walk all day, play soccer, choose for a motorbike experience, flow swimming... the checklist is going on. yet i did no longer basically project the physique, I additionally prefer to project the techniques. I actually have a deep factor that i discover i can't share with all my acquaintances as a results of fact they only don't have the scope to be on my point. I even have some acquaintances that are on par with me... much extra so, yet they now stay between thousands to thousands of km away. as a results of acquaintances transferring away, and with the scientific subject of no longer being waiting to be as lively, coupled with different issues occurring in my existence, i'm having to re-invent myself, such as you. i visit confess i replaced into into partying while i replaced into youthful... yet i began early, and have been given it out of my gadget. I nonetheless rejoice with a social drink, and amassing... yet in all honesty, i could lots quite have reliable corporation, and verbal replace, then to drink. I basically have been given bored with the so referred to as "exciting existence"... i began questioning, "ok, it is continually the comparable result... why do I proceed doing this?" i found out that the partying replaced into purely a time shopper. I had began to concentration extra on the activities I knew I enjoyed. unhappy to declare that i can purely do the psychological element recently, and am attempting to adapt to my new way of existence. the reliable ingredient is that i can a minimum of connect with well matched people on the internet. CyberNara
2016-11-09 05:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by heyder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋