i think that my sperm donar is to strict on the kids and he yells at our 8 mth old to get her to be quiet and gets mad at me for getting mad at him, he think is an expert with kids,
2007-07-13 05:36:14 · 27 answers · asked by betrayed 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
No matter what the age of the children he should not yell at them. If he doesn't like the noise he needs to leave the situation until they are calmed down. Kids are going to be noisy, they do not understand that they are being loud. If he was such an expert he would trying to help you to get your daughter to quite down. So to answer your question it is wrong of him to be yelling at the children and especially the baby.
2007-07-13 05:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lil's Mommy 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is wrong to try to quiet an 8 month old by yelling. All he is going to do is scare her and make her cry. This is not how to teach a child proper behavior.
Maybe you need to look at your relationship with him. You obviously have no respect for him, and thus he has none for you. Maybe a calm discussion about discipline, with an understanding that the mother and father bring different roles to the table, will work better than getting mad. Ask him if he thinks that yelling will work. Calmly explain why you think a different approach will work better. Remember, the child is both of yours. You two need to compromise on how she will be raised.
Or you can just isolate him from raising the child, and prepare for your coming divorce.
2007-07-13 06:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's wrong. No one should be yelling at a 8 month old. Sounds like you're sperm donar is verbally / emotionally abusive.
2007-07-13 05:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lena 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yelling at a child at any age is wrong. Yelling accomplishes nothing and is just displaying anger and lack of control to the child. You need to get him to stop, to a 8 month old that is emotionally abusive.
2007-07-13 06:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by iamhis0 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 mo old is kinda young to yell. at 8 mos, you don't really understand what people are saying, and won't relate the yelling as a clue to be quiet. Sounds like your partner has anger management issues.
2007-07-13 05:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Malina 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is a controlling think. I bet you the father will only have to talk to child to get a response when the mother will probably get walk on by the kid. It true! My ex yelled at my son and he only had to tell me son to something once. When I tell my son to do something he acts like he does not hear me.
2007-07-16 12:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by $$kap$$$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! He obviously has angewr issues. Everybody knows that yelling at a baby especially that young is only going to make it cry harder. Get him away from the kids FAST!
2007-07-13 09:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by wish upon a star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk... yelling at a helpless 8 month old. Cold hearted air head. I can tell by your name you don't feel so good yourself. Hey tell me where your husband is and I will come over and wack him over the head with a brick.
2007-07-17 05:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. Think carefully before you continue this relationship. Are you sure the yelling will not escalate to shaking or hitting the baby? Your prime responsibility is to keep your daughter and any other children safe. If he is not ready to address his anger management issues it is time for you to move on.
2007-07-13 05:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by EC Expert 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in a military family and my step dad would always yell at my younger siblings and tell them to be quiet after spanking them. I finally got so mad I told him to grow up and act his age.
2007-07-13 05:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋