last weekend my boyfriend and i atttended his bestfriends party and i realized that my boyfriend and his friend introduced me to everyone as my boyfriends dear friend and not his girlfriend. although i was offended by my boyfriends actions i haven't said anything about it yet because i want to make sure im right. so tel me should i be upset about him introducing me to everyone as a dear friend or am i making somthing out of nothing.
2007-07-13 04:46:58 · 17 answers · asked by beauty queeen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youre making something out of nothing
2007-07-13 04:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by IAN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad if my boyfriend did that to me. I think that that is an indication that he does not value you enough to introduce you to others as his girlfriend. Anybody that is happy to be with someone should be happy to introduce them to everyone and should want to make sure that everyone knows that they are together. Keeping this from him will not solve your problem. Ask him why he did it and if he doesn't give you a solid answer then maybe you should consider moving on. I can't tell you what to do because this is your life. This is only a suggestion and you should take it as such.
2007-07-13 11:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by dencur02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems strange to introduce you as a Dear Friend. Sounds like a good friend of the family or something. I would definately let him know how he made you feel and find out why he did that. If he doesn't give a good answer dump the jerk!
2007-07-13 11:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Richard G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone thinks they are making something out of nothing, but a persons words say it all. He didn't want anyone to see you as his girlfriend, but as a close friend only with little ties to eachother. I would question him about this, and if he denies it, you know he' lieing and then I would call the relationship off. Period. Good luck. Blessed be...... Catsss
2007-07-13 11:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont dump the poor guy .. yet. give him a chance to explain him self, thats what u would have wanted him to give u, right? perhaps u havent been together long enough to be considered boyfriend and girlfriend yet. it may sound weird, but sometimes even boys need time to evaluate whether or not they want this relationship. if he thinks it aint going somewhere he might need more time. of course, if he is in his teens he might be embarassed to use that term ("girlfriend") .. especially if he hasnt used it before in front of his friends...
ask him if he considers u special enough to be with him, ask him if he actually WANTS to be with you... if not... THEN dump him!
its what i would have done, any way...
best of luck, girlfriend!!!
2007-07-13 11:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by bukroot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. It may be hard but it is the best thing to do. Try to figure out his intentions in doing that, if he didnt want girls knowing he had a girlfriend, or maybe a lot of them already knew. I don't know, I'm not psychic.
2007-07-13 11:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he introduces you as his friend and not his girlfriend its because he doesn't want people to think he's attached, he's keeping his options open. If you're not ok with being used, then yeah you should dump him
2007-07-13 11:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...how long have you two been together, and have you established with your bf that you are infact his "girlfriend"...and all that goes with it?....if your answers are yest to both these questions then yest...make something out of something...cuz that's a big diss....you are his gf...and should've been presented as such. How the conversation/discussion/argument will play out however it will, just know you dont have to settle. Take care...hope it works out.
2007-07-13 11:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ingenua...or something like it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So how long have you two been dating and how old are each of you?
Have you bothered talking to HIM about calling you his "dear friend" and not his "girlfriend"?
Don't be upset till you talk to him.
2007-07-13 11:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and ask him what he meant by introducing you as a dear friend.
2007-07-13 11:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by babychelle15 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋