she wants me to have a friendly relationship with her parents.... but it is perfectly clear that her parents want nothing to do with me... they have judged me since the first second they have known about me.... i have done nothing but show them respect when i have talked to them and have given them absolutely no reason to not like me..... at this point i dont want to even acknowledge they exist... but i love her with all my heart and this is important to her for our relationship to move any further....
wut should i do about this.... i cant have a relationship with her parents if they dont want to have a relationship with me
2007-07-13 04:30:11 · 4 answers · asked by zenkifc3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its hard for them....because they've seen me hurt to much and they just don't want to see it happen again....
my mom has seen how much i do love you though and see has seen how important it is for me to want a relationship between you and them....
that is why when u come down to visit my parents are taking the day off to spend some quality time to get to know everyone.....
its not that they don't like you and they have not judged you..its just that they are trying to protect me from more harm....
i've told u about all that has happened......well they feel responsible...and they just don't want ne more hurt and pain to befall on me again......
once they get to know you they will love like i DO!!!!!
I LOVE YOU HUNNY!!! and i miss you!!!
2007-07-13 06:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Poosocks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain all of this to her. however, i do think that a parents daughter is very special to them. maybe they still feel as if she still needs parenting. or maybe they see you as someone who may break her heart and they are not getting close to you becuase of this. good luck!
2007-07-13 11:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by jaffacakesaresogood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look!!parents don't like anybody near their girls!!they are just protecting her!!it's not you they don't like,it's if you are going to break her heart!!
show them that you are serious!!make them see!!in time they will trust you!!!and believe me,poosocks is sooooo worth it!!
she's a great girl!!give her all your love!!!
2007-07-13 21:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-whenever you see them say MR. or MRS. whoever, not by their first name
-try not to wear too ratty clothes by them
-dont be desperate to start a conversation
-ask them how their doing after you adress them by saying "hello MR/MRS whoever"
good luck!
2007-07-13 11:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋