So, I went to my girls house and found a condom(used) by the bed. I wasnt sure if it was mine, so I tried it on. And it was too small for me. What should I do? Should I ask my friends to try it on just to see if one of them is the one going behind my back?
2007-07-13 03:47:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you for being rude, atrabel
2007-07-13 03:53:30 · update #1
Dude you must be gay. You tried on a used condom? No wondering why she's cheating on you dumb ***.
2007-07-13 03:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Issysd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously she cheated if it's not yours, you need to get rid of her if she doesn't think you're enough. Sorry to hear it happened but some people do that, if something happened like maybe you were away for a while and she got kinda lonely and a friend tried to comfort her and it went a little further? Try to talk to her about it but don't be rude, cause maybe she didn't intend it to go that far but it did, and even then she was smart and made the guy use it! But truthfully maybe it was yours you just didn't notice it didn't fit when you used it.
2007-07-13 10:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Blake K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you try on a used condom? You better try on an AIDS test. Yes I am sure you are so large that this part was the dead giveaway. By the way.... yes I think all your friends should try on the USED condom that was too small for you.
2007-07-13 10:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
a couple of things here-
1. if you know its not your's it doesn't matter whose it is. its used and grossly has been left around. if she's being that careless with leaving around used condoms (especially from someone else) she's being careless about alot of other stuff to- including you.
2. condoms aren't shoes- you can't play cinderella and try to find the owner. not only will you insult and gross out your friends but you won't be able to find out anything from even trying to ask your friends to do this. the best way to find out whose condom it is is to ASK HER.
3. you deserve to be with someone you trust. someone you can trust compleately and she's not looking like she's all that trust worthy. Confront her about it. trust you gut instinct, not your emotions. of course you want to believe anything thats a plausible reason that this doesn't mean that she's cheating on you, but be very honest and blunt with yourself- a used condom thats not yours was next to her bed. enough said.
4. be smart and go get tested for STD's. its better to know for sure even if you've used a condom everytime. don't get burned twice by her- once being that she hurt your heart and broke your trust and twice being that she's passed something on to you. if she's careless to leave a used condom by her bed from someone she's cheated on you with you can't count on her to be looking out for your sexual safety. there are std's you can get even when using a condom...
i'm sorry that you found out this way, but at lest you found out. you deserve better than how she's treating you...
2007-07-13 11:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by miss m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you try a used condom on? That doesnt make any sense that you want your friends to try it on. even if it fit any of your friends, it doesnt mean that he did it. I wouldnt stick to a girl who would confuse my world just thinking about whom she slept with!
2007-07-13 10:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by fine touch of class 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm......NO!!! trying on a used condom can't be healthy.....I mean what if it isnt your's???? can you say spreading jerms & possibly disease!!! why dont you just ask her if it is someone elses....the worse she can do is say no...& hell you dont even remember if it's yours, i would just leave that alone
2007-07-13 10:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by SBprecious2007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better go get tested. WHY WOULD YOU DO SOMETHING THAT CRAZY? Who cares who it was, all you need to do is ask her if she was with someone else, then decide if you want to be with her.
2007-07-13 10:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you try a rubber on that you had no idea who's it was? Thats pretty gross.
2007-07-13 10:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by sat609 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a tasteless joke!
This wasn't even funny!
What an imagination. try to improve it :))))
2007-07-13 10:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated and it doesn't matter who with, just leave
2007-07-13 10:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋