my b/f and I have been having so many problems w/ each other. It all started when he got a job as a nite life promoter- he had another job working at Banana Republic. So when I told him how I felt about his job as a nite life prom and that I wanted to break things off btwn us b/c its getting outta control (he had posted he was single on myspace and he had pics with other girls so he can attract ppl to go to his parties). He told me that he would quit his job! And I thought it was the sweetest thing becasue I knew how much he loved that job (he likes creating a buzz in the city)
So things were going good....since monday, he has been working night shifts at B/R from 10pm-7am, and I beleive him b/c he called all the time and I heard his coworkers in the backgroung, but yesterday morning i asked him if he was working and he said no. but then all of the sudden he said he had to get ready for work! I was stuned- I think he was prom. club b/c he does thurs. nites... and he didnt call me yest.
2007-07-13 03:34:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and when i called him...he ignored my calls...and txted that he was busy with work! So when i told him that I think he's promtin a club....he called and he was very upset with me.....but he was outside he- he claimed he didnt have service in there! And he said he would call me from his job phone number.....and then after 20 min. I got a phone call frm banana but when I said hello, he hung up..I didnt hear his voice! And then when I called the job back, some guy answered and said he wasn't working!!! Huh??? then my b/f tells me am a lair and that I didnt call! And he said he would call me during his break....b/c he would get in trouble and said do you want me to lose another job? and then i told him it was over....and he never called me back! I am so upset......why didn't he call, was he at banana or promotin a club...what you think???
2007-07-13 03:48:47 · update #1
Oviously he loves his job as a promoter and it takes serious trust to have a bf in that kind of intertainment business its not right to ask him to stop doing what he loves but u could request a little more honesty with his business dealings. Hey why not help him promote and advertise. Go to some of the parties dressed as the hottie beside him. Trust him to make employment decisions for his life and still treat u like the queen ur. sounds like he loves you yet wants you to realise that what hes doing is more than just a job or hobby but a dream. Talk it out with your bf.
2007-07-13 03:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by Caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the dude a break, what's wrong with him doing a job he enjoys. I think a majority of normal people would enjoy making money while having fun. You seem to be a control freak, you guys are only b/f & g/f, you're not his wife/mom. Quit killing his dreams. It seems that you need a lot of attention, you're a example why we dudes don't want to get married, oops, get tied down. I'm being hard because I don't anyone is going to tell it as it is. Good luck.
2007-07-13 10:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Issysd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the two of you should take some time apart...i was wrapped up the nite life for quite some time and depending what he does at the parties it may be hard to distance himself from it...maybe he needs a lttle time to sort through what is more imortant to him at this point in his life...not to say he doesn't care about you...it sounds like he does or he wouldn't have quit before...but if he partying at the parties(i think you know what i mean) then it may be even harder to get away...
2007-07-13 10:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by pcefrogchk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a player and your getting played. he won't be straight up with you, and posting single on his myspace (i bet he had some lame excuse for that too) lied about quitting his job....look i don't know all the facts, but i would say lose the geek and get real man. but what do i know...I'm just some guy on yahoo answers.
2007-07-13 10:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by Aug the Conqueror 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too many questions and red flags move on and find someone you can trust or you will be miserable more and more as time goes on so break it off and start fresh. you will find someone for you eventually without all the headaches. its hard i know been there done that but it is worth it to move on to something better and don't settle for just anyone just because you haven't had a date in a week. take your time and be smart--good luck
2007-07-13 10:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by CHOPPER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves to do that, then don't hold him back. It will only make him despise you later in life.
If he loves that job, but you cannot take him doing it, then the both of you need to think about going your seperate ways.
2007-07-13 10:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by theCATALYST 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well what i think he need u be a party girl or he loves his night life job so if u can be like him then go on otherwise find one ur type person for ur life.
2007-07-13 10:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by asifbudy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing he really likes the job. Sorry but dont know what to tell yo.
2007-07-13 10:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a liar...and he'll stay a liar as long as you let him...I'd move on...good luck
2007-07-13 10:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by suitablepenname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not being straight with you from what I can see.
2007-07-13 10:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋