hey ♥
would you prefer the girl to make the first move or do you want to be the first to make the move?
thanks ♥
2007-07-13 03:25:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U will probobaly get a 50/50 answer on this unless im the only person on this. I personaly like the girl to make the first move that way it doesnt seem like im rushing it. I have made the first move too many times and screwed the relationship all up. Thats my oppinion
2007-07-13 03:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by fozey0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if my current wife never made the first move, I'd still be single right now. I always prefered the girl to make the first move because I was shy in my younger days. Now, I have more confidence, but if I was to flirt with someone else, I wouldn't be here to respond if you know what I mean. lol However, if a girl approaches me, it's not may fault. lol
2007-07-13 10:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would like to make the first move
2007-07-13 10:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First the girl gives the hint she wants to, then I make the move
2007-07-13 10:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i kinda prefer the girl to make the first move. Only because confidence is an attractive quality to me! lol
2007-07-13 12:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation... If a guys not sure that the girl likes him, he wont make the first move.
2007-07-13 10:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by tsudrafter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, im' shy when it comes to meeting new people, but i eventually open up just by simply being around them
so i'd prefer the girl making the first moves, cause it'll show me that she's curious and has an ambition to get to know me
2007-07-13 10:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it is a huge turn-on to have a girl take control and really push me to my limits... nothing is hotter. Though nowadays I guess in a general sense it doesn't really matter so much..
2007-07-13 10:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jack B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always the chick first then i will take over
2007-07-13 10:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by mikesdirt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way is fine.
If you wait for him, what if he is too shy, even though he wants to.
In this day and age, either is good to start it off.
2007-07-13 10:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by teamlessbear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋