What kind of qualities do you find attractive in men?? For example, some people feel attracted to men who seemed interested in you and flirt a lot.
What do you say??
2007-07-13 02:39:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like a guy to make the first move im often culess as to when a guy likes me and i like a guy to be senisitve(not cry baby)and i like them to be outgoing also has to make me laugh and yes i do like when a guy flirts just as long as it's with me
2007-07-13 04:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by hawii_girl25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find men who are intelligent and knowledgeable extremely attractive. I met one the other day, and from his looks - he was a not very attractive Hispanic guy, I thought he would be not that bright, but he entertained me for quite a while talking about current events and movies we both liked. If I weren't in a committed relationship I would have asked him out. I look for men who are smart, I admit it. I also like a guy who is handy around the house, because I am clueless about fixing things. Intelligence, kindness, good manners go a long way with me.
2007-07-13 02:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Catherine R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, openess and an unwavering sense of integrity, treating others, ALL others, not just who you are interested in with respect and kindness. Those are the most attractive qualities to me. Being able to laugh, and have fun is very sexy too, but not important if the other qualities aren't being met first.
2007-07-13 02:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the guy I'm attracted to right now is funny, honest, caring, and modest. He's a really great guy! And honestly his looks dont hurt either! Unfortuneatly, I first thought I might be attracted to him when I first looked at him (we all know what that means) but after really meeting him, he seemed really great! After going home, I heard he said I was weird, so I thought maybe he wasnt the guy I thought he was. The thought was dissappointing and morbid, so I made my best friend grill him about it and it ended up he didnt think I was wierd. He was just curious about the way I had reacted to something. After going to the movies with him again, I know he really IS that great guy I thought he was!
2007-07-13 02:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love genuine smiles.
I make really stupid jokes a lot, so the guy has to kinda get me.
I'm a computer dork (I work in IT) and I love intelligence when it comes to that sort of thing.
I like when I'm able to actually have a debate with a guy without it actually turning into a fight. But I love when we can both intelligently discuss something like religion and use legitimate arguments without resorting to making fun of each others different beliefs.
open mindfullness is awesome too
creativeness.
soo many more things :p
2007-07-13 02:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Glitter Berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy needs to flirt in order to get a girl interested. He also needs:
Muscles
blue eyes
athletic
a wallet
and he would need to have a strong personality
2007-07-13 02:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i would want the guy to flirt with me and be interested in me...
and i like when there nice, caring, know how to listen or give good advice, like i HATE it when you tell them something, like having a bad day and they say soemthing stupid like, oh well. have some sympathy. another thing is that they have to overall have a nice personality, DONT overdue on the *********, a little is ok, but JUST a little. i also like a nice fit body..(: thats a HUGE turn on.
2007-07-13 02:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by -Jess.<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what attracts me is confidence. Sexually, emotionally and physically. Someone who is confident is comfortable with who they are and are more able to open themselves up to others. To love more freely and give more freely. Not ********* or arrogance but just grounded in who they are and what they believe and want and have in their own life. This takes maturity and that is important in a relationship.
2007-07-13 02:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His honesty...his smile...his eyes...hands...
to tell the truth it´s a mixx of qualities, acts and moments that will define it.
He doesn´t need to be perfect, cause after all there´s no perfection in this world.
He just have to be himself...nothing more nothing less...
Because this one day for the right girl..
Will be just ENOUGH !!!!
2007-07-13 02:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Glá 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who can tell me how he feels straight up... I am clueless often times, it takes ages for me to realize that a guy likes me. I'd appreciate it if he could pluck up the courage to say it. Confidence is a factor but never too much.
2007-07-13 02:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by hipandalive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im attracted to guys who have really nice, white smiles. I dont particualry like a guy that that flirts alot, he might not know how to stop when the one hes flirting with isnt his girlfriend. That happened to me. thats why i dont really like it. But its all in the smile. :)
2007-07-13 02:43:02 · answer #11 · answered by HeyMs.DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋