Yes, I was invited.
2007-07-13 02:34:34 · 17 answers · asked by the_antaean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Go, if you'd like. Stay home if you can't go with a smile on your face. Either way, send a nice card.
2007-07-13 02:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Catherine A 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What kind of reason is that? Do you do everything your in-laws do?
I wouldn't have any interest in going to my ex-boyfriends wedding, no matter who was friends with who.
Get real. You are dying of curiousity, or else you would not be using the flimsy excuse of "my in-laws are friends of his family". They sent you a courtesy invitation, that is all it was. You are married now, let him go. He and his fiance don't want you there.
2007-07-13 10:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would do wonders for your healing process.
And that if you don't go, it could mean that you haven't gotten over it. Although, I would stay away from the booze while I'm there.
Alcohol sometimes takes away some of your inhibitions and you could either end up, cursing out his mother for ever having given birth to such a vicious or end up naked in the punch bowl, singing the theme song to Happy Days!
2007-07-13 09:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Market Magician 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the couple a favor and do not go.
My fiance is inviting her ex and I am not okay with it at all.
It makes me question her feelings for me that she wants him there so bad.
Even if nothing is still going on between the 2 of you it will make the significant other VERY uncomfortable!!!!!!!
2007-07-15 22:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how deep the relationship was.. Were you really involved with this person? How much did you love this person? Is this person still in your thoughts?
If you ended your relationship as still being friends and the relationship wasnt deep then I dont think it would matter...
but
If you and this person were very serious.. You ended on bad terms.. I would rethink going.. you being there may rekindle something that doesnt need to be..
Either way.. You should do what you feel comfortable doing.. If you dont feel comfy by being there, he may not either... So go with your feelings on this one..
2007-07-13 13:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband came to my wedding, It all depends if you are friendly with each other. or why you broke up, etc. Me and my ex are on good terms and we also had a daughter together, and it was important for him to see me finally happy, so he wanted to be there for me, and see 'our daughter all beautiful for the day. So if you're still good friends with him, then go.
If you broke up on bad terms, then do not go, but still have the decency to send a card :)
2007-07-13 10:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by mannasox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mature person would choose to go because she was invited by her friends, the groom's parents.
2007-07-13 10:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You have no place there. If the new GF, soon to be wife, knows about you it's really wrong of you to put that extra stress on her by being there.
Stay at home or go to the movies. You had your chance to be that girl and you chose not to.
2007-07-13 09:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by Panama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? Would you like it if your significant other's ex- showed up at your gathering? Seems to me that might be inviting trouble.
2007-07-13 09:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by cris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you go to all the weddings that your in-laws go to? Why would you want to? I wouldn't and I don't think your husband would want to either.
2007-07-13 09:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋