if your bloke keeps accusing you of things and checks up on you, does that mean hes been doing things he shouldnt. because i found his a member on a couple of chat rooms and he doesnt know i know, yet he always accusing me. im hurting so much and cant say anything just incase it ends.
2007-07-13 01:02:30 · 24 answers · asked by parent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i found out and found his profiles on these chatrooms, im not on them myself as he moaned for bein on myspace. i dont trust him anymore and i feel everything i thought he was has gone, like my dreams bin taken away
2007-07-13 01:10:08 · update #1
ive already made up a profile on 1 of the chatrooms his on, makin out im sum1 else, and have sent him a message, i hope to god he does the decent thing n dont reply, at the moment his pc isnt working but his usin mine, even wen he uses mine he checks his email but acts like his lookin through it hoping i wont see that he has had message alerts from these chatrooms
2007-07-13 02:42:18 · update #2
Poeple ususally accuse you of being what they are themselves, otherwise why would they care or how would they know! turn the argument back on him! hes not being fair to you
2007-07-13 01:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes always been insecure then theres a high chance that he has not been dishonest.
you should first ask him if hes been on chat rooms then if he says no you know he is lying then be honest about your insecurity's.
if you sneaking around making profiles then he may think you going on chat rooms to and the issue will get bigger so just ask him.
2007-07-13 03:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by colin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds guilty and a little insecure. Try to talk to him and mention you know about his chat rooms, his reaction will say it all, i'm sure you don't want to stick with a liar and a cheat, but talking does solve a lot. Good luck
2007-07-13 01:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Chunky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i accuse her or i am very suspicious of sth usually i do things that i should not. And this because i believe that she will do exactly what i do and then i will be jealous.
Difficult things.
Reveal that you know for the chatroom to see his reaction
Good luck!
2007-07-13 01:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by nikos R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds like he is up to no good & is trying to cause a fight to end it maybe
or he is real jealous & really thinks you have been cheating so he has gone on myspace as payback to you!
just calmly ask what he wants & see whats up & then take it from there. good luck!
2007-07-13 01:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hard question... it could be that he is just insecure in the relationship.
or it could be that he is doing stuff so naturally assumes that you are too.
Maybe he goes on chat rooms just to chat...
Whatever is going on there is certainly some trust issues, no relationship will work where there is no trust in one another.
2007-07-13 01:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by mrbatfink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess he is doing things he shouldn't. Anyway if you are that much hurt of his attitude then you should tell him that he is hurting your feelings. If that doesnt work then i would have ended this relationship. Confidence is the major part of a relationsip if that doesnt exist then there is no way your relationship will continue.
2007-07-13 01:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by kiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny how these things work, its often the guy with the most to hide is also the most suspicious about his significant other.
Ask him to his face- if hes still telling porkies then id say walk!
2007-07-13 01:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to your question,you know he is lying and maybe even cheating.So why put yourself through this crap.If you leave him ok you will hurt for awhile but it will go away that i can promise.nobody needs this type of torment in their lives,he obviously cannot see how this would destroy you.So put the boot in first,leave him without telling him why and see how he likes secrets and deciet.
2007-07-13 01:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by irene c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no trust in your relationship.
he is up to sumthing so its made him insecure and now he is trying to make you insecure, which he has done since you have found out he is on chatrooms.
this'll just get worse the longer you stay together. you cant love if you cant trust.
i say end it now before you really get hurt
2007-07-13 01:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋