I have a feeling for this guy friend for a long time. He doesn't know my feeling. He is very focusing on building up his company right now.
There is a french woman who he had one-night stand with one year ago. She contacted him recently and would come to this country to see him. I know he hasn't had sex for a really long time. And this woman has the same purpose I think.
But I really love this guy and would do anything to make him happy. I feel very jealous and don't know what to do with this.
Do I need to reveal my feeling to him before she came? What can I do with it? Please give me some advice!!!!!
2007-07-13 00:30:18 · 6 answers · asked by mermaidice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hie Mermadice. Well to me it is better for you to reveal before she comes and sees him, because when you don't reveal at him then it will the french women turn to get it, when you are in love with this guy and want him then it is better for you to call and him ask him for a out and from there you can express your feelings towards him and when you have express it to him then it is better for you to wait for his reply, because it is better for you to explain to him when the first time you saw him and until today, when you have done that then it is time for him to give the answer. Try this and hope it might help you..................
ALL THE BEST.....................
2007-07-13 00:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, this is a very difficuolt situation... I think you shoul reveal your feeling be4 she comes.... If he loves you too, everything will be alright. If he doesn't well... Remember that who prefers a night of sex instead a life of love doesn't deserve this life of love! I'm from italy and sometimes i have a little of problems to write sorry.... Hope you understood.... Be brave and.... GOod luck!
2007-07-13 07:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by carolina_kaki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ! dearest.
You should tell him that you love him, express your feelings in front of him but did you know his
nature and is he the good person, he should not be proudy. If you know him very well then dont
hesitate otherwise he will be someones else.
So hurry! Best of Luck.
Your wellwisher
Savita
2007-07-13 07:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Savita P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing to do when you are interested in someone is to check and see if the person is interested in you as well. if not, you are wasting time and emotions. id hes not interested youcan move on to someone else.
check for any signs that he likes you back. if he doesnt, then whatever he does with that french woman is not your problem and you can move on to someone worth your time.
2007-07-13 07:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by hiLdA a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes reveal your feelings for him if you dont want to loose him to this other woman and do it quick before she comes he might just stop her from seeing him ,you never know . good luck .
2007-07-13 07:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very tricky... i think in the end, what you need to consider is your friendship, and how much you guys value it. if you think its worth risking, then teo him your feelings for him. but if you feel your friendship is just too much to risk losing and face changes, then maybe you should keep your feelings to yourself and move on. its never easy, this situation.
i sincerely wish you good luck...
2007-07-13 07:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by livedie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋