Have any of you been dumped on your birthday? I hate my birthdays I swear that's always about the time I get dumped. My long term relationship seemed to have come to and end today. I was born on a Friday the 13th so me actually getting a Friday the 13th birthday again was exciting for me.
But no, he got mad tonight and said some things and then before I know it he changed his myspace and facebook to Single. I don't know if it's an official break up or not cuz he does stupid things when he's mad. Nevertheless, it's my birthday and why did he have to do it NOW. Our relationship is long distance at the moment, otherwise I'd just go see him and ask. We spend years being in the same town. This distance is so hard. =(
2007-07-12 23:28:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww, that is sad. But still, I wouldn't put up with it. Doing stu[id little things when you're mad to upset the other person is something a 12 year old boy does. :(
Actually on my 17th birthday my bf made me cry...and actually again on my 20th (5 year bad relationship) The first time he and his mom moved to a new house, I spent the night before at his house. The next morning when we woke up I asked him if he was going to come over when my mom picked me up for my birthday. He said that he couldn't go because he had to unpack some of his stuff and organize his room. Cold huh?
Then again on my 20th I told him I would like a nice quiet birthday at home, so he bought pizza, soda, etc, then called his mom and family to come over, which they couldn't at the moment. I told him it was fine because I just wanted us to hang out that day, and then he yelled at me until I cried telling me how messed up and unappreciative I was of what he was trying to do. Yeah my birthday's have been crap ever since I was 15. My 18th was ok because I took myself out. I don't even think I'ce had a birthday present since I was 15 seriously, well maybe one or two. LOL sucks huh?
My bday is next month and my bf (new one) is so wonderful, I'm sure it will be great. Sorry didn't mean to rant and talk about myself. I'm just saying crap birthday's suck, especially when your bf makes you cry :(
2007-07-12 23:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to pray over this situation that occur on your birthdays. See men a days cannot be trust worthy they can dump you at any time, just hold on to what ever you believe in but not men.
2007-07-12 23:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by melody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fri the 13th is viewed as a lucky day for many, including myself. the fact that u r getting dumped this often should instigate you to engage in some serious introspection
2007-07-12 23:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably planned it that way so that he does not have to get you a present. Tell him that he is a jerk, and make plans with some friends. That is so mean ans selfish. I would never speak to him again!
2007-07-12 23:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never dump by any guy, but girl cheer up you have a great time to do and many thing to think of better than think of useless relationship
2007-07-12 23:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sylvia R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awwwww u poor thing!! he is mean and selfish, my advice is to dump him before he does any future harm...u do not deserve this on ur bday!
2007-07-12 23:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya i've experienced that. it sucks ryt. but that's the way it is. just dumped him. that's all
2007-07-12 23:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by crazybadgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋