So for the past couple of years i have had my fair share of "hook ups". (still a virgin) Anyways, i'm a total hopless romantic and i have wanted a serious boyfriend since i was a little girl. i have had 2. that weren't THAT serious. anyways, this might sound conceited but i'm an okay looking girl you know? when i look at some of these couples around me i just feel so alone and slightly jealous. so tell me guys what is it that you are looking for in girls, i know what i'm "looking for" in a guy but i can't seem to find one around who doesn't just want to play me...??
2007-07-12 20:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Jess S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a guy, but no one so far has answered your question.
Guys don't like a "clinging vine." type of girl. They like a girl who can take care of the trivia stuff without them and come to them with a real problem. They want to solve your problem if they really care for you. They like a girl that is hard to get and easy to be with. However, they will never tell you that. They want to be admired, especially by you. Want your respect. And pretty much, take care of you. They like a girl with a little mystery.... so if you fall in love with him, you'd be better off not telling him; he wants that challenge. Deep down inside, he knows you love him.
2007-07-12 20:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to keep looking! There are good guys out there, they are just hard to find!
Try not to be so serious at the beginning of the relationship, this turns a lot of guys off.
I hope you are not just looking for a guy that looks good, if so, that would make you conceited. I have found in my 20+ years of dating that guys that are okay looking make the best boyfriends.
2007-07-13 03:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle My Bell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not what the guy wants in the girl, if it is then the girl is a fake. Let me guess things you want in guy you probably want a hottie, but there are very little good one's out there (not to brag). If what i am thinking, in what you want in a guy your not going to find one who's not going to play you. You should want a guy who wants to be with you, who says wow i am with the best damn girl in the world, someone who appreciates you. But If you want to be in a relationship honesty, the guys who want a relationship look for honesty and trust, and the guys who play look for a girls looks and breast size. Also don't be someone your not, it never last.
2007-07-13 03:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by spikes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are different, some look for ***, some look for convorssation. Its all over the place man, aint that simple. I always look for Honesty, ok lookin at least, and a great sense of humor.
2007-07-13 03:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by krayziespirit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for a girl who doesnt "hook up" with guys she isnt in a relationship with.
2007-07-13 03:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'm assuming you're in your teens still? at that age guys are looking for some hot azz.
2007-07-13 03:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. honesty
2. politeness
3. she has to be cute both in personality wise and looks wise
4. she has to accept me for who i am
2007-07-13 03:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by GANGSTA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋