This is the 2nd time his best friend has come to my work. the first time the store was closed so he couldnt really see me except through the window. my bf(now ex since sunday said originally that his best friend came to the store to check me out). well, my now ex (he dumped me on saturday) and i are trying to see if we want to work things out. Tonight his best friend came into my store since i work at a bookstore and like ordered harry potter and basically acted like a regular customer. i called my ex since were trying to work stuff out but my issue is that i called him tonight to ask him about his best friend he didnt pick up the phone like he has these past 3 days. why is he coming to my work?
2007-07-12 20:11:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive basically told my ex that i want to get back together with him and like i agreed to give him some time to think about it. we talked like a normal couple today but like he still wants some time to think about it which is ok with me. i just feel his best friend isnt helping the situation or maybe im just reading too much into it.WHY IS HIS BEST FRIEND COMING INTO MY WORK? (i dont think he knows i know hes my exes best friend)
2. IS THIS AFFECTING MY BF'S DECISION ABOUT POSSIBLY GETTING BACK TOGETHER?
3. IS MY BY MAD AT ME ABOUT TONIGHT & THATS WHY HE MIGHT HAE NOT PICKED UP THE PHONE KNOW THAT HE WAITED FOR ME BECAUSE I HE WOULDNT COME INTO THE STORE UNTIL I WALKED BY AND THEN AS SOON AS HE SAW I WAS IN THERE HE BROUGHT HIS OTHER FRIEND INTO THE STORE. ALSO, I TOLD MY BF THAT I WAS WORKING 6-10PM TONIGHT AND HIS BEST FRIEND CAME INTO THE STORE AT LIKE 6:15PM.
2007-07-12 20:12:32 · update #1
maybe your bf had nothing ot do with it, maybe his friend is just trying to cause problems. just ignore it, let your bf know about it, but don't act angry (wait till you are back together for that - lol)
or, next time he comes in - let him know that you know exactly who he is and ask why he is there..
2007-07-13 00:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by brandi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK number one why is it that the best friend is coming around when unwanted
the fact is that the best friend wants you to be his Cinderella
making false moves to insure his insecurity but if your man is this insecure then do you really need him
and if the answer is yes then open his eyes to the fact that there is a wolf in the hen house
2007-07-13 16:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the ex doesn't know why, the best friend is probably trying to get with you...
2007-07-13 21:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is NOT think about the negative things about each other, and ONLY think about the positive things about each other, and what you do for each other
2007-07-13 02:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋