My girlfriend told me yesterday she wanted to go out with me and make out with me. We are both 22,but I'm going to turn 23 earlier then her. I really don't feel comfartible doing 'it' with her. Sorry with the spelling mistakes but wht shld i do?i just need an answer by the next 20 min! Thanx!
2007-07-12 19:10:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um i really dont know what to tell you. you say that your girlfriend wants to go out with you, but if she is your girlfriend then aren't you already going out or do you mean a friend that is a girl. further more what does turning 23 before she does have anything to do with not wanting to go out with her, make out with her, or sleep with her? its not like she is under 18. as far as you personally not being comfortable with it in general than you shouldnt. dont do things just to make others happy you have to do what will make you happy as well. so i hope everything works out for you.
2007-07-12 19:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By doing "it" I'm assuming you are talking about sex right? Just because your girlfriend wants to go out and make out doesn't mean that she wants to have sex. At the begining of mine and my boyfriend's relationship there were many times that we just hung out and made out....nothing else happened. If you guys are having sex at all, have you talked about having sex? If you guys are having sex, do you just not feel like it tonight? If you don't have sex then you both might want to sit down and talk about the sex topic. Do you want to have sex, wait til marriage, or the right time? You guys, I'm sure, will come to an agreement on that. If you two are sleeping together and you just don't feel into it tonight, I don't think that she is going to be mad. Maybe upset, but not mad. Sometimes I don't feel in the mood to do it and my boyfriend doesn't get upset and visa versa....If you're not in the mood just tell her that it's not her but you just aren't in the mood. Maybe tomorrow night or something. Then surprise her with like flowers or something to kinda "make-up" for her having to wait....Hope I helped! Good luck!
2007-07-12 19:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by candyland_690 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are 12, going to be 13, not 22, going to be 23...
2007-07-20 03:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, well i agree with some of the others, making out & doing
"it" are really different. If she is your girlfriend and you are 22 then it would probably be really fun to make out, lol because it acually REALLY IS FUN!! Haha :]] & if shes your girlfriend & your not comfortable making out with her, then whats up? You should be comfortable around your girlfriend and if your not then maybe you two should talk :]]
2007-07-20 17:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you feel comfortable? Just tell her that you need to have a little bit more time. If its really bad tell her that something happend in the family and your not over it so you need to take things slow
Good Luck
2007-07-12 19:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by *~*Volleyball player*~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound way younger than 22 going on 23...
2007-07-12 19:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do anything that you don't feel is right. If you are scared about making love to someone, don't be.
LOL. Comfartible, too funny
2007-07-12 19:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by cappatown23 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
we can cancel it if you want. i understand. i'll wait till' we're you're ready. P.S. Funny mistakes! Comfartible? What we're you thinking?
2007-07-12 19:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell her that you didn't feel comfortable making out with her? If you tell her how you feel and she gets mad and leaves then meybe you shouldn't have thought about making out with her in the first place. If she judges you then it's not worth it. If she understands then it's worth the wait. don't worry and good luck.
email me and tell me how it works out... plz!
2007-07-12 19:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Carol A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to feel comfortable doing "it" with her until you are married (if it ever happens). Sex is meant for marriage anyway. Until then you don't have to worry about it. So why not give it a shot?
2007-07-12 19:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by livestorun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋