2007-07-12 16:18:56 · 15 answers · asked by tracyterry 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes, offer them coffee, and anything else you have. Just be glad that you have friends that care enough to come and visit.. What a nice thing to have! There are a lot of people who don't have friends, or have any company,,
In this day and time,, we are allll so busy,, that we really don't take the time like we shoud and visit our friends.
Maybe they were in the area, and didn't have time to call.
I would let them know that you enjoyed their visit..the next time to see them!
2007-07-12 18:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Paige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just happened to me the other day! Three friends showed up..at like 11:00 PM! It was TOTALLY unexpected, and I was lucky to not be in my pajamas. I gave the house a quick-clean (because it was so unexpected, and we were just casually in the house, not that it was messy) as my brother distracted them for a while, and then invited them in, despite it being quite late at night.
As for guests, invited or not, I would always invite them in if it is appropriate (ie not about to go somewhere or something). Although it may have not been so polite of them to come uninvited, you should have invited them over, because two right don't make a wrong, and it will let them know that you are exceptionally polite and generous for inviting them given the circumstances.
I think you should have invited them, yes, but if you did not, it is not big deal. If you are in a really bad situation and can't have them over at the moment, you can politely explain to them your situation and hopefully, as friends, they would understand.
Perhaps it is just me, but I don't like to be thought of as rude or obnoxious, so I would always invite someone in, even if they came unannounced (obviously only if it is someone I am OK with). But the choice is yours. You heard my opinion, good luck :)
2007-07-12 16:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Omer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you reward bad behavior with a positive action you are encouraging the bad behavior to continue.
I would not invite them in but would inform them that they have come at a bad time. I would tell them that I am sorry that I can't visit with you right now, but will call you later to plan for another day when I am free.
Be polite and respectful but do not feel guilty in turning them away.
2007-07-12 18:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehh...tough call there. I think showing up unannounced is a no no, but perhaps it depends on the situation - did they have a good reason to show up unannounced (some errand, something fairly urgent, etc.), or were they just dropping by because they were bored?
I think I would have let them in (unless you really didn't feel like being social) but politely let them know that dropping by unannounced is not appreciated. Casually let them know that next time you would appreciate a phone call before they visit.
2007-07-12 16:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
That depends on if you are busy or not, or how you feel.
If you are busy, or not feeling well, you can politely tell them so and let them be on their way.
If you are doing nothing, then consider that they are dropping by because they consider you a friend and like to be around you. Put yourself in their place and think about how you would feel if you dropped by their house. What would you expect from them?
2007-07-12 16:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by missmuffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how you felt about seeing them. If you had other things you were doing and really did not want to be bothered, I would have told them thanks for stopping but I can't see you right now. On the other hand, if you were pleased to see them, I would have invited them in and offered something. It really is as simple as that.
2007-07-12 16:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Don't Wanna Die 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but I do not even get off the couch to answer the door, if I am not expecting someone, and my door bell rings. My policy is you should of called first. So in my opinion there is no need to invite them in.
2007-07-12 16:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would have invited them in and made them feel welcomed. I have invited people in while wearing my PJs.
2007-07-12 16:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO not if it was convient for you. Dont feel bad. You just say "im sorry but this isnt a good time for me. I wish you had called first."
2007-07-12 16:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Educated 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you don't like them, don't. If you like them, yes.
2007-07-12 20:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋