2007-07-12 13:34:38 · 38 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, Katie, that is not abnormal. Girls who go to high school and then college usually meet our husbands later than most. I met my husband as a senior in high school and we married 4 years later. He was my very first boyfriend.
Having boyfriends too early can really be hard on your heart. Just look at your friends. They are going through so much drama with going out and breaking up and cheating and staying on the phone all night. Aren't you tired of listening to them crying over their broken hearts?
If you're smart, you'll leave all that until you're a little more mature, and only start dating when you're trying to find someone you can marry.
Good luck, little one. Save your heart for someone you can be happy with for a long time, and you'll be happier in the long run.
2007-07-12 15:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you said 40 and never had a bf then yes you are abnormal.
13 and no bf? Better be the case if you were my kid else I would have to show your little bf my shotgun collection :)
2007-07-12 13:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Frank S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope,nodda, zippo!
When i was 13 i had 1 bf and it was awful (not dating him anymore) anyway i'm not going to date until i'm 16 now! Most people don't go out until 15 and up....some people will go out with guys earlier but they'll break up and that 'couple' will hate each others guts! Needless to say if you date later then you'll have more choices in high school.. hope it helped!
2007-07-12 13:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bekah D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally NOT! I'm 13, and I think if you DO have a bf at this age YOU'RE abnormal! Seriously, you're COOL!
2007-07-12 13:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by 1001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 13 also. I've had a lot myself but a lot of other girls in my school have not. My school might me a lot different then yours. But a lot of things happen when girls and guys get together. It really doesn't matter if you haven't had a boyfriend because guys really do suck. You'll see. People may make fun of you and stuff because you haven't expierenced a lot of things, but don't care what people think because it won't do you any good. What you think is what matters.
2007-07-12 13:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol your 13!! You will have plenty of time to have a bf when you grow up. Right now just have fun and enjoy your teenage years. Dont try to grow up too fast
Hope this helps
:-)
2007-07-12 13:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are normal, 13 is very young--get to know yourself, enjoy your friends, and concentrate on your education---plenty of time for bf. And a smart, young girl like yourself, with self-confidence will look really good to a good guy someday soon.
2007-07-12 13:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Please don't be in such a hurry to have a boyfriend. Wait as long as you possibly can. If you can wait all the way until you are an adult, that would be great, and you wouldn't really be missing anything.
Most of the mistakes that people make dating and greatly regret, they make in those high school years.
2007-07-12 13:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Katie its ok not to have a bf, be an independant woman. Boyfriends just complicate life, make you cry, and go with your best friend. You got it made kid.x
2007-07-12 13:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha.. not at all.. your not even old enough to start dating.. wait till your in highschool..
youll be alittle more mature.. and attractive.. youll look more like a women
seriously tho.. your way to young to worried about whether not having a bf is abnormal..
2007-07-12 13:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew David 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋