Why is it so hard to find love? Is there something wrong with me??

Question

I mean i want it but i cant seem to find that person for me!! i go on so many dates but no second dates! iam a cancer am very outgoing person i love to have fun! i love sports baseball mostly, but dam its hard.

Answer 1

I am in the same situation....I wonder the same thing, when will I find love? Just pray about it Karla, the Lord will send u someone.. Just dont rush it

Answer 2

May I suggest that you take a look around your house, on the walls, in your room, in your wardrobe and hall way. Make sure that the pictures, colours and everything that surrounds you is showing a sign of what you want. For example, if you want a fantastic relationship, hang a picture of a couple that are romaticly in love on your wall. Write down what you want. Its very important that you be specific in what you want in your life. If you have nothing on your walls and all you see is your every day pets and family around you, well i'm afraid that's all you'll get. So add something different to your already outgoing personality and start imagining having fun with someone else in your life for a long time.

Answer 3

Maybe you are meeting men in the wrong places. If you are trying to find someone decent, stay out of the bars and clubs. You will only find a one night stand or someone Else's husband. Don't try so hard. Let it happen naturally while you just live life to the fullest and hang out with your friends. Love may find you if you stop and relax. If you give a desperate vibe then men will run the other way!

Answer 4

Love finds you...you may be trying to hard....persons who don't generally get asked out on 2nd dates usually are a bit over the top...perhaps pour themselves out to soon...overwhelm their date...date to gain new friendships, look for what that person can add to making your life more enjoyable...not for the perfect guy, eventually you'll find someone that has all the qualities to fall in love with...and its going to be that person that will tell you he sees the same thing in your eyes...be patient and good luck.

Answer 5

I have to agree with the first poster. There is too much overpopulation in the world and the less new babies being made, the better. Maybe you will find a lesbian lover that will make you happy. Most men don't like girls that act too manly.

Answer 6

Quit worrying about it so much! Just try to live your life to the fullest and love will eventually find you. You'll know when its right. Love is something that no matter how hard you try, you can't force it.

Answer 7

Try asking some of the people you've dated for tips. It may feel awkward but sometimes they give good advice.

Answer 8

lots of dates, but no return customers?

Hmm... Check your breath, the efficiency of your anti perspirant deoderant, clean body, brush your teeth, check for eye-buggers, etc.

Once you determine those things aren't the problem... then i don't know. I'm assuming ur not bad-looking if you're getting plenty of first dates. =/ so that might not be the problem.

Answer 9

Listen to women. They always give hints on what they like and dont like. Read between teh lines and adjust accordingly. Dont push, smother you need them to come to you and chase. Women love the chase. Trust me I know. Works all the time.

Answer 10

I think the thing that's most frustrating is wanting something but it's too hard to find....I think it's important to just enjoy your life and that's when it'll happen....When you least expect it....When you aren't expecting anything is when things happen...