I have been going on and on for 6 months around in circles about either moving to the city or going overseas and in the process have compeltely lost myself and turned into a horrible person spending the last 6 montyhs on the internet it has been so long now i have turned into an aboslute idiot i knew what i had to do to get beter, move out and change jobs but i didnt and now i have no motivation to do anyhting at all!
2007-07-12 12:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2007-07-12 12:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Clumsy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Let me see here. . . you've been going in circles, you've lost yourself, you're a horrible person, and you're an absolute idiot with no motivation to do anything at all. So. . . . what is your question? You've just told me a pack of lies about yourself.
Our thoughts are what cause our feelings. Any person who thinks as badly about themselves as you do is not going to be a very happy, motivated person.
Dr. Phil has wonderful advice on his website:
www.drphil.com (click on advice) Look for the article about:
"Eliminating Your Negative Internal Dialogue"
You are not a horrible person, and you are not an absolute idiot. Those are the lies that you are allowing to make you feel unmotivated. You, and only you, have the power to change your own thoughts. No one can make decisions for you.
2007-07-12 20:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depression isn't trivial to the person experiencing it. it is very real, it is real to you, and that's all that matters. talk to someone your trust.
and if there's no one like that, try looking in the phone book. many counselors accept insurance.
if your in college, they should provide free counseling at the student and health center.
2007-07-12 19:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Justina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you sought professional assistance?
2007-07-12 19:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get off the computer and get moving. you know what they say - sh*t or get off the pot.
2007-07-12 19:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please read the book " Battlefield of the mind" by Joyce Meyer......it will make you a new person.......really.....
2007-07-12 20:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your plan stop being a babey
2007-07-12 19:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need medication and medical help
2007-07-12 19:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋