What are some for-sure ways to find out if a guy is truly into you?

Question

i've known this guy for three years. you could say the moment we met, we just sort of clicked. We've been on and off sense then, but as we get older, things are getting more serious. We broke up about four months ago after I thought we needed time to ourselves to meet other people. It made us both just like eachother more, and after me being gone for a month on vacation, we've been talking about getting serious again. The thing is, when we were dating he was absolutly the best boyfriend ever. He called me every night, would buy me cute random gifts just because, and wouldn't bring up another girl infront of me ever...now things kind of changed. We may go a few days without talking or a week without hanging out... just small things that make me wonder if he's really into me or just claims he likes me because its been what he's used to for three years? i don't want to waste my time. I just want to know a few tactics to know for sure if a guy likes you

Answer 1

I am not sure why you needed to write this essay. Based on everything you said he clearly likes. What more proof do you need, a flashing neon sign? I am not sure why you stopped seeing each other considering how well you were treated. Stop worrying and just get with your boyfriend.

Answer 2

Well, when we are younger, we always tended to have more free time, less things to do, and felt more energetic, in any relationship, time is hard to come by as we get older, It definantly sounds like he's into you, he seems too smart to be with you, if he wasn't, and vise versa, Even married couples who live together, go a couple days or even weeks without a real long serious conversation, Work and children and family issues get in the way. It's completley natural.

Sure ways to know if he's in to you, is if he makes you feel good about yourself, if being around him, and the way he looks at you makes you feel complete, and he remember important things, like birthdays and anniversaries. Even people married for years dont remember those, so dont bash him if he doesn't, but it's a definaniantly a yes.

The time apart is a GREAT way to improve a relationship, You've guys have been there done that, spending some time apart, especially if before you felt a little constricted, (hence why you wanted to see other people was probably because he WAS there all the time, and he was all you knew),
This is a great way to keep the relationship going between you too.

I dont feel any relationship is a waste of time, it's a good way to develope and find who you really are, and what you really want, for every sour relationship we find a better person, and we shorten our horizons for what we do want, and what we do deserve, we become happier with every trial and error, but i do feel like he definantly likes/loves you, talk to him, ask him questions that would make you feel comforted.

I dont think getting an answer from here can fill that need, a comforted need, that he needs to say, is simply, " I want to be with you forever, or you are my world, " or something as simple as " I do everything for you", To make you feel like you are his priority, to feel loved to the ultimate, to bring back all those old feelings. But remember, why you needed space last time, maybe he's respecting that now, knowing thats what you need, find out from him. it could be just another thing he thinks is best for the relationship, I feel it's a good move, especially if you plan to be with him a long time, or move in with him. Space, and personal independance, is the ultimate cure for relationship boredom, or long term relationship syndrome!

So, yes he does like/love you.

Answer 3

I've got the best for-sure way to find out if a guy likes you. If he's honest, it'll work 100% of the time. It is as follows:

Ask him if he likes you.

Why didn't you just do this in the first place? Don't go for 'signs.' Being so roundabout will not benefit you. You will best get what you want if you are direct. Do not listen to those who tell you to elicit 'signs.' Such advise does nothing more than lead you away from being proactive and toward wasting your time.

Answer 4

Try going out with another guy to see if you can make him jealous. That should shake him up if he really likes you.

Answer 5

lol if hes been out with you he lyks you.
just tell him you lyk him
im sure he still does
so yuhh ask him out again
it was you who broke it off
so he is expecting you 2 ask him out again


why would he express 2 u that he lyks u once u had dumped him?

Answer 6

When he picks doing something with you instead of his friends

Answer 7

he will pitch a tent.

Answer 8

suk him up

Answer 9

You ask him.