A guy does not want to date a woman just because she has kids?
2007-07-12 11:54:43 · 12 answers · asked by NONAME 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I added this after almost everyone answerd-
I am a single fulltime father of 3 and if a woman had kids it would not make a difference I would date her anyway, However, I have heard many time that guys that don't date women with kids the guy is wrong. There was a pole earlyer that asked if a woman was wrong for not wanting to date a guy with kids and they basicly said that its ok if she did not wish to.
I supprised at this and leave it up to a vote.
2007-07-12 12:49:25 · update #1
If he doesn't want kids in the relationsship, he doesn't want them. Unfortunately! But he's stupid in missing the opportunity to be with a nice girl!
2007-07-12 12:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by dena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that is pretty stupid the way that guy is thinking I mean if he really likes or loves the woman than he will also have to give same love and care to the kids and if that can't than he is wrong to start with anyways
2007-07-12 19:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by kajal c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, because a man might not want to have to deal w/ another man's children and all of the problems that come w/ that. it is normal for a man to want a woman w/ out kids
2007-07-12 18:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nadine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It'd be a lot worse if you kept quiet and let the resentment build up.
I have a friend in her thirties who just divorced and she made a tee-shirt saying, "I'm divorced WITH NO CHILDREN". She says it's not only started quite a few conversations, but gotten her a lot of dates, too.
2007-07-12 18:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, a man may either choose to want to be the father figure of the womans child or he may choose not to. Either way it is his choice. Some men would like to carry the womans "baggage" ,others would not.
2007-07-12 18:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by iloveyoo323 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not the right guy for you, most single guys want girls that have no kids.
2007-07-12 18:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by califababy25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a ya. i think you should like the kids i mean common. dont you think you would want to have kids. well here ya go. i think you should give the gurl a chance.
2007-07-12 19:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by ☃☠ღshortie④②⓪babiiღ☠☃ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well with an attitude like that, you aint gonna get far in the MILF Club...
Dating them is not keeping them, eh?!
So perhaps somewhere down the road you'll change your mind!
GL and have fun anyway!!
2007-07-12 19:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No its okay you just dont feel as if you could handle kids yet
2007-07-12 18:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Joa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he doesn't want kids, then don't date her.
2007-07-12 18:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋