ok, so i have met this girl. and i have made it quite clear that i am interested in her. she is divorced.
we have spent a night together, but just talked (this was a way of showing her that i am not interested in her for 1 sole reason).
now she SMSs me or calls me at weird hours. there are times i respond, and others i dont bother!!
i ask her to meet me, but she always has an excuse not to!!???
i am getting quite tired of this 'relationship'
what does she want exactly??
2007-07-12 11:39:45 · 13 answers · asked by set d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if she's divorced I would say that she's still a little afraid of commitment and that she likes you but she's being standoffish because she's afraid to let you know she likes you because then she can be hurt again. This is one of those relationships that's gonna take some time. If you really like her and you think she's worth it then give her time. Once she realizes that your not gonna hurt her on purpose then things will get easier.
2007-07-12 11:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she is maybe concerned of what you think of her after spending a night with you! calling at weird times maybe she needs to talk and let it out and by you not answering or not bothering your not making things any better.
Girls get paranoid easily especially when it comes to a guy's thoughts.
Best thing to do is be straight forward, plan a day out with her and talk to her face to face put her on the spot and have her to answer your question or explain what as been hapenning.
Good Luck
2007-07-12 18:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Innocent*Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd investigate and ask HER what she wants. We can't really tell you what she wants, because we're not her. But I'd go to the source, and be like, ok this is getting weird, and I need to know where this is going. You've got to go to her for this answer... I can't really tell you because it seems like she's sending a lot of mixed signals and... there could be something going on that you don't know about so... talk to her ^^
2007-07-12 18:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by -->[Institutionalized]<-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was jsut devorced it sounds like she's a lil scared to start up a new relationship... if you really want to be with her than keep talking to her ask her what she wants. ask if she wants to start a relationship and is just scared or if she just needs someone to be there but isnt ready for a full blown relationship yet... best way to know is to.... ding ding ding thats right ASK HER. good luck sweetie
2007-07-12 18:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by VI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think she is interested in you... but divorced women are no little girls. Talk to her directly, she may not want a relationship right now, or she may not be interested in you right now.
Depending on how long ago she divorced, she may be tired of a serious relationship. Talk to her.
2007-07-12 18:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by pimienta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but I don't think she knows what she wants. She calls you at weird hours maybe because she got lonely. But she doesnt want to meet up because she's not all that into you.
2007-07-12 19:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by angie n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. She wantsyou, or she wouldn't be around. The reason she contacts you at all odd hours is not for the purpose of annoyiing you, she wants you to know that she's thinking of you all the time. If you want her, take her, she's yours!!!!
2007-07-12 18:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably more comfortable having an electronic relationship. I like those too because you can say anything and u don't have to feel stupid about it...
-Ari
2007-07-12 18:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't want to hang out. She's not worth it, move on.
2007-07-12 18:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Bobby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA-dude bang her tonight then change ur number tom! hahaha
2007-07-12 18:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Toic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋