I just recently went out with someone I went to high school with. He gradutated 2 years ahead of me. We had fun. We went to dinner and then back to his house and watched a couple of movies, then he brought me home. NOTHING HAPPENED EXCEPT A QUICK GOODNIGHT KISS!!! IT"S BEEN 22 YEARS!!! He did say that next time we would try a different place to eat.
Please give me some advice on how you see this situation.
2007-07-12 11:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by newmom041402 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he wants to see you again. You are both completely different people then you were in high school. You can't just pick up where you left off. Go out with him again and see if you like the grown up he has become. If it works, good for you. If it doesn't, you two just grew in different directions and that happens sometimes.
2007-07-12 11:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by harleychic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you are 'single' then you have a 'choice' ... you can 'wait' for him to call you, or you can call him and invite him for dinner ... either at your place, or at a restaurant that is 'different' from the first place you went. This is the 21st century, and women are supposed to be 'equal' and if you 'like' this guy, or even 'wonder how much you like him' then YOU can do the 'inviting' ... and he will probably actually be very happy if you do.
2007-07-12 11:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart tell you to do? Follow your gut. I've known you for a long time and you generally make good decisions. Hey worst case scenario you might swing a date for your upcoming high school reunion.
2007-07-12 14:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great!! If you had fun with the guy in the past, and he is still talking to you 22 years later.....then try to start something more with him! You never know what could happen as a result of it :).
2007-07-12 11:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by skboo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's screwed up many relationships by jumpin' on the first date, so years have slowed him down to see how good of a fit you may be.
2007-07-12 11:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by kevrigger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes just trying to keep it slow, maybe he had a bad experince and hes trying to take things slow. Ask him a couple of personal questions, try to find out what happend to his last relationship.
2007-07-12 11:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by califababy25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say thats awesome. Good luck. At least he didnt try to put the moves on you =D
2007-07-12 11:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by ramon f 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and want to see him, then do....You went on one date, don't make a big deal out of it....
2007-07-12 11:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i am single (and he is single) ..i would go for the second date....if u really had fun with him i think u shud meet him again...
2007-07-12 11:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... hope he doesn't wait another 22 years to take the next step....lol...
2007-07-12 11:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋