Im not completly hideous i can be shy at times and other times crazy im short and pretty skinny Why cant i get a boyfriend boys filrt with me at shows and stuff and ive been kind of serious with a few boys but they always end up likeing someone else what could i be doing wrong?
2007-07-12 10:25:59 · 22 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong with you!
2007-07-12 10:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by hockeychic18 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awww Darlin -
Theres nothing at all wrong with you your just the apple at te top of the tree the lazy and ignorant boys cant be botherd to climb to the top so they pick the rotton girls at the bottom.
All in good time you'll find your prince charming not another Prk in aulminion foil (Cant spell)
As long as you have a wonderful personality does anything matter been beautiful and hot is only bonus points for the good men who will treat you right try getting close and finding out about a boy whos like you this could give you a chance to get un-shy :]
Kirsteen x
2007-07-12 10:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is a lot like fishing.
You have to cast the line several times before you make a catch.
You just can't be passive about finding a partner. You have to have a strategy like deciding what type of person you wish to date. Then go to places where those types of people are.
If you really want to get serious about this then you should put on one of your "dating" outfits and videotape you entrance into a room, walking to a table and sitting down. Basically, you need to see how you sit, stand, walk and talk in something you would wear on a date.
Then you can adjust your look and your presentation to be more inviting to potential partners.
2007-07-12 10:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything is wrong with you. You're young, and you're at least interacting with guys. It's hard, and you don't want to hear it, but be patient with yourself. Maybe even get a little picky about who you try to get. I was the same way for a long time. Finally when I was 19 I got into my first serious relationship and it lasted two years.
You have nothing to worry about. Keep doing what you're doing and the rest will take care of itself!
2007-07-12 10:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by nutz2203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest i dont think its you! So dont think that ok?! Some guys are just... well, a**holes! It doesnt matter about looks anyway, to some people it might, but they arent worth your time!!! you need a guy that likes you for who you are, not what you look like and i'm sure you're not as bad looking as you think all girls think that! (well except the ones that think they are gorgeous but rarely are lol!!!), you just havent found the right guy yet! Short girls are cute ;)
Dont give up, dont blame yourself and dont stop trying.
x
2007-07-12 10:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by theedgemike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too good for those boys that probably want more than just friendship. If you are not easy, they move on.
Good on you girl. The right boy will find you and the others will then see what they have missed.
2007-07-12 10:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres nothing wrong with you
both guys and girls either flirt for fun or b/c they really like someone
try being less shy and more outgoing and wild
i'm not saying that you should strip dance but if your so shy guys wont know if they like you since you wont open up a bit
(plus being "wild" is fun)
2007-07-12 10:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by tylov3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! Your perfect for a certain guy out there that will be crazy about you! its just a matter of finding and waiting for him.
2007-07-12 10:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You choosing wrong guys to date. I'm sure there are a lot of guys who would love to date you, and have you as a girlfriend.
2007-07-12 10:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by shaul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dosent sound like your doing anything wrong
maybe its just you havent fou nd the right boy
i had that very same problem
just wait and im sure you will find a boy that will love you for who you are
2007-07-12 10:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way you said "boys"...looks like you have alot of growing up to. Have patience. Its not time for you to date. If you did, it would end up as a miserable failure. A MISERABLE FAILURE!
2007-07-12 10:30:25 · answer #11 · answered by MadCuzImFlagrant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋