Im only 11 yrs old, and sometimes i want 2 change back, well i used 2 be a girly girl, but when i turned 5 i started to dress like a boy, and skateboard 2, wut should i do?
2007-07-12 09:12:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
if you want to change back then go ahead..but if you're happy with being a tomboy then stay that way. it might be weird to your friends, classmates, family, etc..if all of a sudden you're dressing "girly"..just make a few little changes here and there until you're satisfied with the way you are.
2007-07-12 09:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good or bad being a tomboy. I'm 20 and am somewhat in between. I like to wear makeup and go shopping and dress pretty... my favorite color is pink. But 95% of my friends are boys, I'm a hardcore video gamer, wear baggy guys' pants and am pretty much considered "one of the guys." I'm just me.
One thing I have noticed is that guys like girls who like what they like. At this point you're probably not looking for a boyfriend, but being a "tomboy" you already have an advantage.
Be yourself. If you change into something you're not- 10 or 15 or more years down the line you're going to feel like you missed out. If you want to be a girly girl or a tomboy then that's your choice, but it also doesn't have to be that black and white. If you like to skateboard- then skateboard! If you like guys clothes then wear them. If you wanna add some girlie stuff into that, who says you can't?
2007-07-12 09:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by moonwizard4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like others say, just be yourself, and do & dress how you feel.
I grew up as a tomboy and skateboarded to the point that I became sponsored. I usually dressed in jeans & t-shirts, but I would throw in a little something girley and if the occasion called for it, I would dress up.
I am now grown up, still prefer jeans & t-shirts and my 9 year old daughter is a tomboy too but dresses up when she should.
2007-07-12 09:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do both!
im 12 and i like to skateboard and snowboard and do boy things, but i also dance and wear jewlery and stuff that boys dont do. try to add some style to ur boy look or add a girlish touch to it. (i.e. add rinstones to ur favorite baseball cap, put hot pink wheels on ur skateboard, wear simple jewlery with clothing)
its okay to be a girly girl one day and a tomboy the next. i do it all the time. u have an interesting personality. people will like that about u.
2007-07-12 09:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happy being boyish, stay that way. And all your friends know you as a tomboy now, so it would be weird for them to see you change back. You might lose a lot of friends that way. You might even be seen as a poser by others. I wouldn't go back. You might not even like it being that way again!
2007-07-12 09:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Xinro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your nick says it all :) You have the confidence that most girly-girls will never have. I was a tomboy as a kid. I used to beat up all the rotten kids who dared to threaten my brother.
And that confidence has served me well, as an adult. I don't understand "NO." No just means that I have to find another way.
"Be who you is, not who you is not
Them that does this is the happiest lot."
2007-07-12 20:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by westcoastlib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its fine tht your a tomboy; i had my tomboy moment .
al tho i changed bak ; & theres nothinq wrong with skateboarding too ; i do it, its funn .
and also ; maybe you should hav some girly moments too .
dun ALWAYS dress like a boy, dress like a girl sometimes too & other times u can dress like a boy x]
2007-07-12 09:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you be you !!!!!!!!! hunny it will come naturol its hard bolth ways at 11 i was a tom boy from k-high school you know what it dose not matter what others think it is what you think of your self whats in the in side i am 25 years old now and i still dont like to dress up in high heels and make up (that make up thing is tricky lol i keept pokein my eye with that eye lining stuff) it is up to you if you like to skate , play sports dress in baggy clothing then that is who you are just be you
2007-07-12 19:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good or bad to be a tomboy. It's bad to change because of peer pressure. It's good to just be yourself and do what makes you happy.
2007-07-12 10:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! i love you!
i think it is so awesome that you skate, and dont change back! trust me, if your a tomboy and skate youll have WAYYY more guy friends than any girly girl.
:]
2007-07-12 09:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋