I have a 2 year old daughter. The mother and I are no longer together. She keeps me from taking my daughter on my own for fear she will be around my G/F and her daughter. What should I do to resolve this?
2007-07-12 09:06:42 · 12 answers · asked by Later than Sooner! 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
In a courtroom whether or not your gf is there doesn't matter at all. The parent who has custody of the child can expose them to anyone they want. Your ex doesn't have a leg to stand on, legally.
So you may have to take her to court to get the custody arrangements set down. It'd be nice if everybody could just get along and play nicely, but if ex won't, you have to resort to legal tactics.
2007-07-12 09:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's Not Right. Really Mom's should never allow that behavior until they are at least 16-17. And If Your Mom Acts Like That Towards You, That's Not Even Close To Right. You should Tell Your Mom How You Feel About The Situation and maybe she'll loosen up a bit. Try not to say anything offensive though. And at first talk about how she treats you, Not go into the little sister thing. I hope I Helped!
2016-05-20 23:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the mother and ask her what she is afraid of. If it makes her feel better tell her you would like to take your daughter to the park without the G/F for a little while. Ask the mother of your daugter if she would like to go to somewhere like the park or Mcdonald's with you and the G/F and daughter until she gets to know them and it might be an easier transition. I hope this helps.
2007-07-12 09:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by babyofthree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of custody arrangements are in place? You have a right to see your daughter and your ex can't stop you from having your g/f around unless there are serious concerns to safety etc. I would suggest having a talk with your ex and finding out why she is reluctant to let you see your daughter. Maybe she is afraid of being replaced or jealous and you can reason with her.
2007-07-12 09:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contact a lawyer. You've got rights and responsibilities as her father. Let your lawyer do the rest. Assuming there's nothing hinky about this situation you shouldn't have any trouble obtaining court ordered visitation. Use your best judgement about what's best for your daughter.
2007-07-12 09:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by Durga sings the classics 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta get a lawyer and get some form of visitation arrangement worked out and in writing so it's enforceable. Without that, there's nothing you can do.
2007-07-12 09:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact a lawyer. Didn't you arrange a custody agreement when you split? If not, DO. Your ex will try to keep your daughter away from you but it's not legal.
2007-07-12 09:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Dalice Nelson 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Speak with a lawyer and take her to court for visitation rights.
2007-07-12 09:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by haydae24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get a lawyer so u can have visitation rights and also so it won't cause strain on your relationship with your g/f.
2007-07-12 09:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Yeah it's Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get visitation rights. i believe unless ur unfit father than she cant stop u from seeing ur daughter. u need to be in ur daughter's life.
2007-07-12 09:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋