I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 months, and he still hasn't kissed me. He has never kissed a girl before and I think he is nervous but I can't wait around forever!
I think he feels under pressure because I have kissed somebody before and he hasn't, he says he wants to but we never have any physical contact with each other.
I could never break up with him over this, I like him 2 much!!!
We have hugged & held-hands, but thats about it. Please help me out im 14 (don't bother saying i'm 2 young for a relationship, and I should enjoy life because this is what I want to do at the moment, kiss my boyfriend. Is that 2 much to ask?)
Please help me out, I need to know ur opinion!
x
2007-07-12 08:54:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, neither of us have bad breath lol, so that is not the problem.
2007-07-12 09:07:25 · update #1
Do the following: It is summertime so you can be sleeveless. Tell him to kiss the back of his hand. That will be easy so he will do that. Then offer the back of your hand and say, "Kiss the back of my hand like you did yours." That should be easy for him.
Then say, "That's nice. Now kiss my wrist."
"Hmmmm, I like, kiss higher."
"I love it. Kiss higher....Higher....Higher ... Higher."
"You are great kisser. Now kiss my neck."
"I love it; I love it. Keep kissing; keep kissing."
"Wow!!! Don't stop. I want more. Kiss my lips."
You start off with something real easy for him and your positive reactions gives him the encouragement to do more.
2007-07-18 12:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicky Pie,
Have you ever heard that girls mature much faster than guys. I know you want to do more with your boyfriend. But the fact is he's just not ready. There are two things that you can do. The first thing is you can do is talk to your boyfriend about it and see how he feels. The other thing is you can make the first move yourself. I was in the same situation as you and the same age when I dated a guy who hasn't been kissed yet. What I did is I took him to a place where we could be alone and the BAM. I amde my move. By the end of the day we were kissing like crazy. After that he felt more comfortable with the situation. Well, hope everything works out for you.
2007-07-12 09:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by LivAdr3am11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my answer is this far down the list, you probably won't read it unless you really consider this important. I'm going to give you some advice from experience. I thought about kissing my girlfriend for the first time for several days, maybe weeks before it actually happened. Eventually, we went to a secluded spot down by the river and she put on some music.
Lots of guys have problems trying new things, you'll learn very quickly. He probably does want to do it, he's just nervous. Help him out a little. It took about 3 months with my girlfriend for the awkwardness of taking the lead to go away.
I hope this helps, and I may be able to give you more (e-mail me if you want). P.S. I'm 14, and my girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. ; )
2007-07-14 14:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by legolas85130 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your Boyfriend is shy and new in the game. He will need some motivation. You have different options:
Go ahead and kiss him or
Go closer to him while talking and drinking and keep a live physical contact to instigate him to kiss you or
Just open your top for him to see and enjoy and move on while enjoying the hug
And, if you fail inspite all these initiatives, just forget him.
2007-07-20 09:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Brave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pressure him or anything. Let him take his time cause then what if later all he wants to is kiss and kiss and kiss....its gonna get more annoying and feel uncomftorable i n public. If i was someone and i saw both of yall doing that alot i would just say it straight up to go somewhere or get a room! but really i would feel uncomftorable in public doing that
Hope it helps
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2007-07-12 09:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I won't bother saying that other stuff. But it's only been 2 months. That's not that long. Give him more time--a few more months if that's what it takes & if you really like him. He'll come around soon. In the meantime, keep encouraging him & show him you really like him for everything else you've already experienced with him and his personality.
2007-07-20 09:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by T-La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Cherry Pie
Are you certainly you are a GF & BF, that boy know you are his GF? Well that is possible to be happening. Take it easy give time at the time, talk at him about all, do many thinks toghether and when you go loking. Pouuu he give one big and delecious kiss. Good Luck. I´m a father and I know what I ´m talking. Ok Bye.
2007-07-20 08:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by Arboss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the exact same thing recently. Hes just shy and doesn't know how to start it. All you have to do is talk to him about it and ask him if he wants to try. Then all you have to do is start kissing him and then he will kiss you back. Trust me it will pay off in the end.
2007-07-20 08:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Marie17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend is in the exact same position. but she's been dating this guy for 3 months. she figured that he's just waiting for the right moment when they're BOTH ready for it. she's 14 as well, and so am i, i swear. you could kiss him, u can't always let the guy do it. that's just my opinion though. good luck with it.
2007-07-19 12:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by hot_chic93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok! You need to make sure he knows that you arent going to leave him if he can't kiss right, and if he really cant kiss that you can help him out. Don't make him feel like he has to get his kiss perfect to keep you.
2007-07-20 05:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋