Is this normal for a 15 year old girl??!?

Question

Ok uhmm..
I have such a different personality....
If I'm with people MY age i act MY age...
Wen I'm around older people i act much more mature and relate to them...
I like older guys.. Im not that much attracted to 15 yrs olds..at least not reely..jus 20 yr olds..idkk y.
My mom gets so irritated bc i can hang out with my 30 yr old female neighbor and be bffs with her and such&&also she says mi taste in guys can even kill me..and im always in adult conversations and talk good...but then again wen im around ppl mi age i totally relate and act like them.....is this weird? shud i just stop and jus act mi age all together?

P.S.
i dont hang out with her ALL the time jus visits...plus shes foreign so shes diff...
and i have loads of friends mi age its just my problem is is that i relate to both older and younger ppl and it mite get me in trouble and idk wat to do??

O also loads of times...[[i dunno where i use that british term mayb bc i jus saw harry potter lol]] but yea LOTS of times i cant stand my parents and want to just run off and grow up and idk wat else

O also loads of times...[[i dunno where i use that british term mayb bc i jus saw harry potter lol]] but yea LOTS of times i cant stand my parents and want to just run off and grow up and idk wat else

Answer 1

20 year old guys would only want 1 thing from a 15 year old.
I suggest you stay away from them.

Answer 2

I think it's normal. I'm sort of the same way, I rather talk to adults rather then my peers, but watch out for older guys, you don't know what they can lead you into. I wouldn't trust them, there out there looking for teenager girls and seem nice but could be dangerous. Other than that I see no reason why you should hang around with older people and it's good that you do, it's not bad to have a 30 year old as you best friend. Just be you self and hang with the people make you feel good and respect you. I can see that teenagers there's alot of pressure to be cool and can be a bad influence, maybe that's why you are more comfortable being around older people, you are already a young adults not too much of a age gap. It's better not to go with the crowd, it's more important in being you comfortable with yourself. It better then being with bunch of teenagers trying to get into trouble that's what I would say to people if they questioned me.

Answer 3

It isn't normal for a 15 year old to be hanging out with 30 year olds. You might hear and see things you aren't supposed to, which can lead to you being influenced. Enjoy being a teen and hang out with people your own age. It goes by fast and when it does you'll regret not taking advantage of such a wonderful age. Your mom is right for not being happy with you hanging out with much older people, she only wants whats best for you and wants to protect you. Do her a favor and stop acting like you are all grown up, it does you no good.

Also, there is nothing wrong with liking older guys. Do NOT date or get invovled with them though. Older guys going for the younger girls are just interested in getting sexual relations the easy way. They fool younger girls by telling them they love them and such. Do not be one of them, stay away from them.

Answer 4

Just because they are older doesn't make them more mature. A 20 year old dating a 15 year old is after something. I was a 15 year old not too long ago, I know. It's okay to have older friends but enjoy your teenage years. Do all the teenager stuff. I wish I had done more silly immature things when I was your age now.

Answer 5

First of all, you're not an adult, your spelling alone tells me that you are a child.

Second of all, what does a 30 year old have in common with you? If you are really best friends, then your neighbor is a mental case and needs serious mental help.

You are not having adult conversations, adult men and women who probably have pedophile tendencies are humoring you to get something they want. As you put it, you "talk good", however, if you were truly mature and responsible, then you would know it's "talk well."

Your mom needs to put a stop to this now before you end up raped or killed.

Answer 6

well...its normal to an extent. girls mature faster than boys, but liking 20 year olds is not narmal. i like an 18 year old and im 15 but once you start liking guys over 19, its not normal. having friends that are much older than you isnt abnormal, you just need to be careful about growing up to fast. your only a teenager once! so make the most of it by hanging with ppl your age. You need to have a balance in your teenage life, like me! haha

Answer 7

First of all I think it is great that you can relate to both adults and teenagers. Second, becarefull dating guys that much older than you. 99.9999% of all older guys that date young girls want one thing, sex.

Third and most important, please take a writing/spelling class. I am a lousy speller and have never been able to write very well but you post make me look like a professional. I don't say this to hurt you, but what you wrote above was very hard to read. Good communication skills are very important once you get a job.

Answer 8

Sounds like you answered your own question. The problem here is that you have a realized duality in personality. The solution is to focus on ridding yourself of persona and becomming true. Acting as an age is acting.

Answer 9

It seems normal to me since most 15 year old girls look and act like they are 20 and most 20 year old guys act like they are 15.

Answer 10

Hang around with whoever you want as long as you are comfortable. I hang around with my 15 year old friends and act really silly hehe but I also hang around with my big cousin because I look up to her and because she gives me great advice