she tells me i was perfect and i did nuthin wrong. its true tho cuz she randonly broke up with me everything was fine. but she has feelings for her ex. her ex used to treat her like crap. swear at her, wouldnt call her. but she says she willing to forgive him cuz she thinks hes changed. i let her talk to her ex because i let her be free and hav friends unlike her ex. but i dont want to see her get hurt again. i never lied to her and i no it would work. she cheated on me but i forgave her. shes really a great person. but shes also young. she knows it would work but she cant come back to me. her friends hate her ex. her ex smokes, drinks, skips school, made her try weed one time, made her have sex wen she wasnt ready.but shes willing to forgive him she tells me cuz she thinks she changed.i dont get it cuz i never did anything and she told me i didnt.she feels so bad. i really want her back i no she'll be happy but she cant get rid of those feelings.how can i convince her its better w/ me
2007-07-12 08:01:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your obviously young xplain to her if she goes back to him knowing how he treated her and how you treat her you dont think you will take her back.
Be her friend though with a guy like that around thats what she needs.
there is no shortage of woman in the world so findin another one will not be a problem.
2007-07-12 08:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by igotrings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this, but you can't. And why would you want to? This girl obviously doesn't know what she wants. She obviously has no moral compass. She obviously is not over the ex. AND she cheated on you. Time to drop her, let her go, and move on. Stop worrying about how SHE feels, and start worrying about how you're going to feel if you don't move on with your life so you can find someone appropriate to go out with; preferably a girl who is in love with YOU. You can't change her life. Only she can do that. But you can change yours. A good step in the right direction is to give up on this lost cause. You're wasting your time. I guarantee you.
2007-07-12 15:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she don't sound that great at all u need to find someone a lot better if she has cheated on u then breaks up with u for her ex and u did nothing wrong you seem to nice for her u need to find someone that you can trust and care for and will give the same back to you you deserve someone a lot better then her you sound way better then her dont let her let u down there alot more girls out there then just her
2007-07-12 15:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by life sucks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...you can't George....she's transfixed on this idiot ex boyfriend of hers...and he's got magic you and I will just simply never have or understand here partner.....Personally I just think some women like bad-boys and just love to be treated badly by men.....it's their affliction though dude....not ours! Give up this little Philly temporarily...cause she's gonna be troubled by this idiot for the rest of her life with her own conflicted feelings for people partner....are we clear? Need more...???
2007-07-12 15:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tuff one dude the only thing I may be able to say is and old saying. "If you love someone let them go and if your are supportive they will come back when they are read for true love" (OK I changed it a little)
2007-07-12 15:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by seth j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no it is upsetting i no how you feel my ex bf randomly broke up with me 2 but for another girl!!! you could woow her back or you ould just let her find out the hard way!!! show her the good things you can do for her and try and get it into her headd the bad points in him!!!
try and get her friends to help out if they hate him!! try and get them to pretend to fall out wiv her coz of him and hopefully she will ome back!! seriously good luck ; ) email me what happens k?
2007-07-12 15:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a piece of crap. You're better off. Try dating her friends.
2007-07-12 15:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still have feeling for her ex just let it be
2007-07-12 15:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by unforgetable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋