tracking me with navigation so every night when she would ask me my whereabouts and the wrong answer came up.... she would start hysterically crying!......... is it her fault for violating my space?
2007-07-12 06:49:15 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was playing pool instead of the grocery store.. i was playing poker instead of attending church
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2007-07-12 06:53:53 · update #1
what a psycho chick! kick her to the curb and throw her surveillance junk at her!
2007-07-12 07:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off..she shouldn't be tracking you. Second off...if she IS tracking you it's because she doesn't trust you. A relationship based on mistrust is not a relationship. Try to figure out why it is that she doesn't trust you. You said that you give her the wrong answers...why do you feel like you have to lie to her about where you are? It is partly her fault for violating your space but then again if she trusted you she would have more reason to give you space and not violate it. Communication is KEY! Good luck! :-)
2007-07-12 06:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by DesireBeauty12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it is you are in a relationship, that is a commitment.
Once you make a commitment, you are saying that you want to share a life with that person.
If you don't have anything to hide, why hide anything?
I think you were in the wrong for lying to her in the first place.
If you weren't lying she would not have had to track you.
This isn't a matter of whose right or whose wrong, this is a matter of whether you want in this relationship or not.
If you do, then you better start working on your trust (or lack of) problems.
You have to work on earning her trust back.
If you don't want bothered with working on it, then the relationship will end and you will be able to go wherever you want , whenever you want.
2007-07-12 07:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little of both. Its her fault for violating ur space and not trusting you. However, its your fault for not telling her the truth. Obviously, there must be some trust issues otherwise she wouldnt have been tracking you. But that doesnt justify her actions. So its both ur faults.
2007-07-12 06:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately for you this simply means your girlfriend does not trust you , and she is playing detective. On the other hand she should not be going as far as tracking you down if she is doing this what's next she is gonna tap your phone???? anyway she is wrong for doing what she does but there's to sides to a story are you giving her reasons to suspect on you or is she just being paranoid and you need to have a good talk with her ....good luck I hope i helped a little...
2007-07-12 06:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by dsotofunds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. guys lie about stuff like that alot, its in our nature. but that doesnt mean its completely ur fault. obviously, she doesnt like to be lied to and she doesnt trust you at all. my advice is to sit her down and talk to her about the tracking because, yes, it is a total violation of your space. And if she wont stop, leave her, she must of had a BF before you who lied all the time and is trying to make sure you dont do the same thing. Just say i want someone who actually trusts me and walk out the door.
2007-07-12 07:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by who am i again? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is obviously no trust here. she wouldnt have been spying on you but you shouldnt have been lying to her about where you were in the first place.
be honest. if you are gonna go somewhere and shes asks you something give her an honest answer.
dont cheat on her or do anything behind her back. if you have enough respect for her, youll break up with her first.
talk with her. stop the lying. stop the spying.
hope i helped.
good luck.
2007-07-12 06:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your fault for making her feel she cant trust you, and then proved her right by lying to her face. If your not ready to be in a serious relationship or just don't want to you should make that point clear from the get go. don't lead the chicks on
2007-07-12 06:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is a trust issue there. Were you doing something you shouldnt? If space is what you want, then you should communicate that with her. Let her know where you really are so that their isnt a reason why she wouldnt trust you. Good Luck!
2007-07-12 06:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Going to NY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off she doesn't trust you and seems that you have give her good reason not to trust you, she may be wrong in using a gps on you but you compound it by not telling her the truth. maybe you need to sit down have a heart to heart and get some balls tell the truth or find another woman
2007-07-12 06:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by ransom53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you lying to her, you know she's going to cry and she's going to ask you. So why do it. just to see what she does? you need to learn to communicate with her. Tell her about your space and maybe she wouldn't call you as much.
gee you guy just like to play your little games. the key to a relationship or a mar rage is communication and comprise. you need a little more growing up to do dude.
2007-07-12 09:08:37 · answer #11 · answered by jennajade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋