Okay so i love my BF wiht all my heart, he has had a different life then me. He grew up got kick out at 16 and made a life for him. Well I love him and i deal wiht the stuff he does cause i can understand y he dies what he does to a point. Well today when we got up for work we went and he put gas in my car so i could get ot work and i told him that my cell was dead i would text him when i got to work. Then i get to work and i text him "hi baby i love you" then he started bitching at me. i told him that i was sorry that he was upset and try just to have a good dya and ill make dinner tonight and we can cuddle up for a movie. Well he called me at work and asked what time i got off. I told him and there this guy at work that i meet when we were apart and i told him i thought he was cute just to thtrow it in his face. I didnt mean it and i sure as hell DONT think he is. I love my man with my heart. But he went off on me about this guy coming ot take over andi said stop treat me like ****
2007-07-12 06:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by emma g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SO then he was like whatever what ever and i was like stop. I got mad so i told him that he can take his little Thing and go **** another *****. I didnt mean it and i dont mean it. We have an amazing sex lfie could ask for more but he was been mean and it just came out. I need ot figure out how to make it up to him. I feel so bad cause i know it not true and i know that he takes it to heart caus ehe thinks it is.. please help. ASAP
2007-07-12 06:47:37 · update #1
stop feeding into the arguments, this is going to sound a little more harsh than I mean - but grow up a little and expect the same from him.
2007-07-12 06:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you sound like you have much respect for each other. I'm sorry that your boyfriend has been through a lot but that doesn't give him the right to take it out on you.
You both need to set some boundaries, have a talk about all the things that bother you so there's no miscommunication. Don't try to make him jealous, that accomplishes nothing. Before either of you picks a fight, think about whether it's worth it.
2007-07-12 13:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by jenni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your playing games with him. Why would you want to tell him all that mean stuff in the first place. I thought you felt bad for the fight and then throwing that in his face. Even if he does tell you crap, don't lower yourself to his level girl! Be the bigger person and put a stop to that. When your angry try to not talk to him until your calm. You can never take words back just remember. So you two behave yourselves OK. Be sure to apologize once again and try not to make the fight worser than it has to be. Good luck!
2007-07-12 13:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Txgirl23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, the damage is already done and you cannot take back the hurt words you threw at him. He sounds like a sensative guy and the biggest bash to a male ego is waht you tossed at him out of spite. It may sound mean but he just might toss you on your ear because (even though I am a female) what you did was unforgivable and down right cruel!!
Several times in your post you said you loved this guy but trust me, to treat him ike that...you really need to "act" like an adult and "learn" what love REALLY is.
2007-07-12 13:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by mom tree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you both have a ton of growing up to do. My God, what ever happened to communication between 2 people? As far as your boyfriends life growing up,he needs to get over it and move on. You can always better yourself if you want to. People who say they act a certain way because of their past are just using it as a cop out.
2007-07-12 13:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Beasley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it was a joke, but as a man, it hurts when your gf says some other guy is cute.
2007-07-12 13:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny what is a relationship without fights eventually you guys will get over it and laugh about it
2007-07-12 13:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by Missa~Luvs~U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your on your own with this one honey. I can barley understand a word you wrote.
2007-07-12 13:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by diablo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That was dumb.
2007-07-12 13:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋