a "one night stand" since i was her first and she wants to experience another flavor before we get really serious........ who should i recommend ?
2007-07-12 06:34:57 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What happens if she likes this "one night stand" better than you?
Tell her you want a "one night stand" too, see what her reaction is.
If she doesn't really seem to care, then you need to find yourself a "new" girlfriend.
2007-07-12 07:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying "Take off the old coat before you put on the new."
In other words, if she wants to have someone else as a bed partner, even a one-night-stand; she should have the maturity to break up with you first.
And you shouldn't support it either - unless you're already having one-night-stands yourself behind her back - and perhaps feel guilty about it.
2007-07-12 06:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously she is not as committed as you are. She needs to grow up and decide what is truly more important to her, you or a new flavor.......I defintiley would not reccomend it, and if she chooses to try a new flavor - be very careful when she wants to come back...because a 'one night stand' is just that...there is no emotional connection, and that is one of the biggest contributors to a great sexual connection. The friendship, trust and love that binds you together.
2007-07-12 06:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't recommend anyone! If this is something that she really wants to do and you are OK with it, try openly dating other people for awhile ( both of you not just her) and let her find her on "one night stand". That way you are not wondering how was it, if she likes him better and all that.
2007-07-12 06:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by LaTrice B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess i could understand that but a one night stand is still kind of gross
haha recommend someone you think is bad at sex or a gay man
or you could always have a threesome with another guy that way you are there when she is cheating on you
i would recommend telling her you dont want her to have sex with anyone or say if you do it then i will too ( except that will only make things worse)
2007-07-12 06:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by riskybusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Two night stands are better. One on each side of the bed. One for your clock and one for your lamp. If she only has one night stand then she could knock the lamp off the table when she tries to turn off the alarm on the clock!
2007-07-12 06:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would offer her a selection of your friends, so she could choose and not feel she was being steered into a rigged choice.
Also, you may want to set her up with one of the women you know, so she can explore that too. Variety is the spice of life.
If she finds another guy and a lady who are both appealing to her, you guys could try a foursome as well.
But above all, have fun, enjoy, and encourage her to do the same.
2007-07-12 06:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Diminati 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should find another girlfriend. If a guy ever said that to me I would be highly offended. Cheating is cheating and you are setting your self up for trust issues, pointless comparisons and arguements.
2007-07-12 06:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by chickey_soup 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one. If you agree to that it's the end. If she doesn't want to be in a committed relationship then it's time for the both of you to move on.
2007-07-12 06:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? what kind of question is this?
are you serious?
theres no way.
you would let your gf have a one night stand?
what if they were better in bed than you are?
then she would want to be with htem instead of you, did you think about that?
2007-07-12 06:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋