Obviously i know people are going to say you shouldn't have to do anything, but people do and I just wanted to know how far you'd go or have gone before?
2007-07-12 04:42:28 · 25 answers · asked by I~Love~Baileys 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sadly i went as far as trying to "buy" his love, and in the end he just really wasnt interested anyway so it turned out to be a big waste of money! so finally i decided i wasnt going to try and make a guy love me, love is just supposed to happen when its right. and now, this november, my b/f and i are celebrating our 2 yr anniversarry...so if this guy isnt going to make any effort to try and make YOU fall in love with him, you shouldnt either.
2007-07-12 04:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by just_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I flirt, but I do that so naturally. Emphasize your good qualities around him, but don't try to act perfect 'cause guys are turned off by perfection. If you're going for "falling in love", you'd need to first get him to date you, because falling in love doesn't happen if you're not together. Ask him to a group event and put some focus on him, but try to seem like you're interested in other boys too, so that it seems you're not obsessing over him. Then call and text him some and stuff. Just get closer and closer. Don't have sex with him before you're dating or in love, obviously, but I mean, go as far as you feel comfortable to get him to like you.
2007-07-12 11:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew there was a possibility of him loving me back, I'd try to do sweet things for him. I wouldn't go too far out of my way if I didn't know how he felt about me. I have driven over 100 miles just to see the man I love for one hour. There really is no limit to what I would do for someone...IF my love is returned.
2007-07-12 11:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry there is no way to make someone fall in love with you, sometimes we can't help who we love, JUST BE YOURSELF. I had a friend who was so desperate to keep this one guy, i mean she was a very beautiful girl, dark brown hair and eyes, so pretty, that after a while she cut her long hair off, bleached it and put contacts in to change her eye color. He completely changed her, because he didn't really like her the way she was. Let me tell you, if you have to change like that, there is no man on earth worth changing for!
2007-07-12 11:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by IslandOfApples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The furthest I've gone is getting into the music a guy I liked was into. In the end, I didn't get him, but I did broaden my musical tastes. :) Seriously, though, don't compromise who you are just to get some guy. If he can't appreciate you as the person you are, then he is not the one for you.
2007-07-12 11:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i've had recent experience with this. This women found a hole in me and she she kept tounging it until it was big enough to crawl inside. She was a complete stranger who i had only just met and i was walking her home, I said goodnight as she had a lot to drink and now I can't stop thinking about her ..... Everyone has buttons just gotta learn how to press them....wheather it will lead to anything long term is a different question.
2007-07-12 11:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I turn the question around and tell you how far I would go to stay out of a relationship?
2007-07-12 11:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by Diminati 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gf.. before we were together, we would chat on msn. When i am sad or anything she will by all means make me laugh. She will queue up few hours for the food i like. And did lots more for me.. eventually i was touched and we are now together for 4 years.
If you like someone just let him know, there are chance that he like you too. If he reject you just tell him coolly that you'll are still friends.
2007-07-12 11:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by In0chI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that you can get someone to fall in love with you, but you can certainly get their attention and attract them. Thankfully with my husband I just had to ask him out on a date and that was that. So, I didn't have to go too far.
2007-07-12 11:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Angie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right, I'm going to say... You'll only find someone that loves you if they will wait... sleeping with them will only let them think you are easy to sleep with and will do that for anyone. It will not be special and you'll regret it because the next day everyone of his friends will know and tell everyone and then everyone will only go out with you for sex and then dump you!!!!! and all the girl will start calling you a sl*t.
have respect for yourself and show him with kindness that you like him... if he like you too he'll wait and have respect for you for not doing it so soon. It will make him feel special.
2007-07-12 11:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋