if ur boyfriend is at iraq and u cant go to iraq and u miss him so much and u cant live without him what should u do?
2007-07-12 04:35:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
darling you know wat the army's like you are just going to have to wait spray his cologne around the house get all his pics out and just wait there aint note more you can do
2007-07-12 04:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, did someone who calls themselves Ms. Hardcore just advise you not to call yourself Devil girl? Crazy world, huh? At any rate, there'a a lot of misery associated with waiting while a loved one serves overseas and a fair amount of anxiety for you both. Write as often as you can, and I'm sure he'll call you whenever the opportunity presents itself. It may be a great time to bond with members of his family since you're all feeling a similar separation anxiety, and/or seek out others in your area who are going through a similar circumstance. Keep the faith. Good luck to you and God bless.
2007-07-12 11:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I would say "try to learn to have some patience and peace deep within yourself darling". Write him a letter everyday...and send them all to him in bulk at the end of the week seriously. Hopefully he loves you simply as much as you love him darling...cause that stuff you two have?...is really quite cool. War is cruel on everyone sweetie....especially loved ones that are left behind here to wonder. Our minds wonder and obsess and get crazy sometimes counting the days until they return. Some people don't return honey. Let's hope your BF does though Pray everyday darling that he does. He won't be the exacting same person that left you temporarily to go fight in the war though darling. He'll be a broader based person with mental reflections though. My son spent 8 years as a Ranger in the Army over there and in Afghanistan too. He's seen allot of death and mischief and mayhem in his youthful lifetime seriously. You and I can't possibly know what that's done to their hearts and minds and reactions really. It's hardened them for certain...with memories of battle that they will never ever forget. So don't you forget to write him a peaceful cheerful letter everyday my sweet darling. It means more to him then you will ever be able to seriously comprehend. Peace babe!!!
2007-07-12 11:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seriously look at the statement "cant live without him." That's a bit much. Im sure you love him, but you CAN live without him. The choice is yours. You can wait for him, or you can leave him. But you can definitely live without him. Be strong.
2007-07-12 11:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by charlie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a large dilemma. You could pull a Romeo and Juliet, but that might be a little extreme.
2007-07-12 11:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by iamjustbored10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I'm Iraqi man
I Advice you to find another BF
Regards
2007-07-12 11:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by omar k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm afraid all u can do is wait until he goes on leave. i can only imagine how hard it is for u, and i greatly admire all of the military girlfriends and wifes for their strength in this area. til then, just look forward to his letters and calls, and make the most of them.
2007-07-12 11:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kristabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try righting love letters to each other to keep the fire going. sent pictures to each other. Remember the good times you've had together.
2007-07-12 11:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat chocolate! It gets me through most every stressful situation.
2007-07-12 11:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start dating other guys NOT! Hang in there and be strong!
2007-07-12 11:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋