To start of I have to tell the whole story. My mom divorced my dad and then she remarried, I went on living with my father and didnt see my mother for over 10 years, my father passed away n i had nowhere to go so i moved here with her. Her husband has a big family , the first time i met them i was 13 years old. That first day i had 2 of his nefews hitting on me. - n this was somethign i had never experienced. - so the first day one of them tried kissing me, We got along n i really really liked him. I used to go to his home almost every weekend, we used to play fight and just spent a lot of time together. - again iwas 13 he was 16. Well the point is that he was my 1st. and it was only a 1 night stand! after that i never went back to his house. we lost contact n never spoke again. NOw im 21 n he is 24 n he wasnt to "HUG OUT" telling me i look gorgeous n ALL THIS things i want to hear from him. He knows he was my first . what shoudl i do? is sex what he wants/?! PLEASE HELP!
2007-07-12 04:27:50 · 16 answers · asked by *Ale* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a few days ago when we was texting each other ( n i was drunk) i told him maybe we were ment for each other (he just got out of a big relationship n we dont talk about it) and he said "hey ..you never know..." what does that mean?
2007-07-12 04:34:21 · update #1
HOW DO I STOP HIM FROM CALLING ME AND TEXTING ME?! HOW DO I TELL HIM I DONT WANT ANYTHING WITH HIM...
2007-07-12 04:38:38 · update #2
where there's smoke there's fire. Do yourself a favor. Don't get burned, you've been through so much in your short life. you need stability. Can he give you that? Follow your instinct first then your heart.
2007-07-12 04:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by JillardG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Won't know what he wants unless you hang out and see how he acts if he's all touchy feely and doing things that eventually lead up to sex then ya that's all he wants. If he isn't really trying to be like that and is actually talking to you and trying to get to know more about you then maybe he wants a lil more then that (friendship first). Or you can just come flat out and ask him what he wants out of this and tell him how you feel about it. Just follow your feelings if it don't feel right to you don't hang out but if you feel like it's ok there is nothing wrong with trying I believe in giving people second chances.
2007-07-12 04:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by getemgirl2105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who really knows what his intentions are. He's Alot older and im sure more mature then he was when he was 16. Maybe he just wants to hang out and get to know you again!
I'd say talk to him and hang out, dont sleep wit him though and then you'll know what he's after- If he stops talking to you when you dont sleep with him then thats what he wanted. If he hangs around and doesn't try for any and all then he was really just seeing how you are and wanting to get to know you! I wouldn't over think all of this! Good Luck!
2007-07-12 04:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust this guy. When he tells you all these nice things tell him "yeah too bad you screwed it up after giving me a one night stand". and leave it alone. He is totally into himself and knows you are attracted to him and is telling you what you want to hear so he can get what he wants. There is no telling how many people he is saying that to that you don't know about. You know what they say, "Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me". That's what he is trying for honey.
2007-07-12 04:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it sounds to me thats all he wants. You have to choose -giving him a chance again since he was ur first and if it meant alot to you maybe you should hang out with you... and if you do that be ready to risk him only wanting to talk to you for his pleasure... to what you feel is right and it all depends if you really like him and if he means alot to you... and i hope he really likes you for who you are.. Best of Luck!!!
2007-07-12 04:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like an idiot to me. im 14 and i know what its like to like a girl but he tries makeing out w/ u on the first day u meet i mean if u like him u should get together w/ him but u shouldnt have sex if ur not even married yet let alone dating
2007-07-12 04:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by cody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does only want sex. He likely thinks that you are still that young naive little girl. Don't fall for it, stay clear.
2007-07-12 04:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by pcgiant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it's too wierd and you don't need that type of confusion in your life. This relationship can't go anywhere due to social pressures, so let it go now.
2007-07-12 04:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think he wants to relive the good ole times.
2007-07-12 04:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go hang out with him and if he wants to do the nasty, just leave and tell him good riddance to bad rubbish!!!
2007-07-12 04:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by Michele R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋