What gives some people sex appeal?

Question

I know that some people may say that good looks give people sex appeal, but believe it or not, I have seen people who are conventionally unattractive-looking who have sex appeal and I have seen people with conventional good looks who have zero sex appeal. What's the secret?

Answer 1

What generally gives such people sex appeal may be the right hormons at work in them, boiling in them. Such people may then have a healthy glow in their eyes and also an irradiation of sexual warmth from their skin, from their faces, from their lips, and especially from their hands when you touch them, and their forms may signal sexual accessibility, even as a sort of uncoscious invitation, invisible more or less mild vibrations in their body that anyway may be felt even from some distance. Strangely enough this can work blocking or embarrassing to some people, make them to abruptly withdraw; the problem may be a transpiring of too much fierciness, a wrong tuning, not the right wavelength.

People with "good looks" and no sex appeal may reveal a sense of calm sexual neutrality, a cold angelic look that may be seen from their skin and from their movements, therefore they may not give sexual urge, therefore they may not invite sexual approach, but strangely enough they may make nearness easier for some people, good wavelength with no fretting. Also sometimes menstruating women and pregnant women, and men of no sexual temperance, may miss sex appeal, the warm sexual glow, because they are not immediately meant by Mother Nature to embark in sexual performance. They may convey a sense of cool calmness that may even look disappointing.

People with "unattractive looks" may reveal a magnetic sexual force, from their eyes, from their lips, from their movements, also especially helped thru by their way of clothing.

The secret may be in all or in some of these aspects.

Answer 2

the secret is CONFIDENCE! when i was in high school I was shy and wasnt as confident. an older lady told me that i would have women running after me an begging to be with me someday. what she said made me feel good but i had doubts. less than 2 years later everything she said came true and my confidence is really high now. I even walk different now and women notice me.you have to want yourself before anyone will want you! :)

Answer 3

certain specific physical features may contribute to this, like mouth shape, or even the eyes. but it could also come from a healthy amount of self confidence. there my also be an argument for increased pheromone production. the french call it ....hmmm...I don't know what? LOL

Answer 4

They are pleased with who they are - confident. They can make eye contact with the opposite sex! Some people don't connect because they are to self-focused and fearful to let people see who they really are!

Answer 5

personality, attitude and hard features.. a combination of any of the 3 can lead to sex appeal.

soft features with more refined personality and attitude usually is associated with beauty rather than sex appeal.

Answer 6

Confidence, sense of humor or power. Any combination of these three things can overcome being physically unattractive.

Answer 7

its all about confidence and how they present themselves.....Ive had really hott boyfriends, but i couldn't stand their stupidity, or un-attractive personalities....so i broke it off! Sex appeal can be shown in A LOT of different ways..

Answer 8

1) Charisma
2) Self-Confidence
3) Sense of Humour

Answer 9

A bulging wallet with big bucks and lots of plastic and a willingness to negotiate.


Sorry, I didn't know you meant in theory and not practice

Answer 10

Nice pair of red thongs and high heels. Woooo Hooooo