Ok my part of my family (inlaws), are have a hard time, 19 year in bad car wreck and not going to make it, 1 of my sister inlaws tried to jump on me and her twin sister at the hosp. call us a bunch of murders and was making a really big scene, ok a long story cut short, this is not her son, she has lived with all of us many times, I gave her a car, list the list goes on. I have done nothing but tried to help her, what you you do? I never what to see her again, and do not want her at my house or around my kids. Is this wrong of me?
2007-07-12 03:09:06 · 11 answers · asked by babycake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she told me see was going to kill me and everthing!!!
2007-07-12 03:12:34 · update #1
no this is not the first time she has acted this way, And why she called us murders is because his mom and dad signed papers to let him go, it is brain dead, I have not said anything to hurt anyone in this, I just keep telling his mom that this is her son, and that I dont know what I would do if it was my son, and I was just giving his mom a ride to she her son.
2007-07-12 03:29:12 · update #2
sometimes when people are devistated and their emotions are running wild (in the case of the 19 year old, who is dying- and i'm so sorry to hear), they do outrageous things.
if this is the first time she's done anything lke this, then it's probably because of the boy who is dying.
i see you have been generous with her and that is very kind of you. if she continues to be hateful, or tries to use you, then you would be wise to sever all ties with her
the decision is yours. i'm so sad for you and your family, also. xo
2007-07-12 03:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong of you at all. You have always helped her in the past, so why would you want to be a so-called "murderer" now. Don't let her use you as the dartboard she can throw arrows at. Just tell her that you were really hurt at what she has said and accused you of, especially as you have been there numerous times in the past for her. And from now just keep your distance from her and don't offer anything anymore.
2007-07-12 10:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong to feel that way, but you have to consider that emotions are running high given the situation. Everyone looks for someone to blame when a tradegy happens. It is the easiest way to cope. Maybe you should be the better person and talk to her about all of this. Good luck!
2007-07-12 10:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by LISA F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's hurt and looking to blame someone. Tell her you are sorry she is so hurt, but so are you and ask her to leave you alone unless she can be at least polite. Tell her it's out of respect for the one passing that you will not lower yourself to fighting/arguing. I'm very sorry about the wreck and the 19 year old. You will all be in my thoughts/prayers.
2007-07-12 10:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever makes you happy. Its not wrong. Who would want to be around anyone that wasnt appreciative of things you've done! Its your life...so you choose who's in it and who's not!
2007-07-12 10:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
need more info why would they call you a murder'er and if you have dont nothing then I owuld not them around my kids either.
2007-07-12 10:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Theresa P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in the clear you dont need a phyco neer you or your children
2007-07-12 10:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by shilohbama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance.
2007-07-12 10:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all .. she is accusing of thw wrong things. she is not worth it hun
2007-07-12 10:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her and move on.
2007-07-12 10:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋