Nothing is wrong with me the guys i meet are not the ideal match the ones i want i can not get. Am very attactive well built most people i meet at shopping malls or coffee shops tell me how beautiful i am. Old ladies walk up to me at bank to pass the comment its happened several times in different places. Am even scared of my beauty but what worries me is why can't i get a boyfreind???
2007-07-12 02:38:30 · 31 answers · asked by tyra s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As I looked over the answers to your question above that were posted before mine I was shocked at how judgemental they all were about your accurate and honest assessment of your physical beauty.
I don't think you are stuck on yourself. I don't get the sense that you are wrong to properly assess and know your physical beauty strengths. I think it is perfectly fine to put that information out there without people giving you a hard time.
Your beauty is a great asset, but don't let it keep you from developing a well rounded personality and people skill set. Not that you have that problem.
Try being even more friendly to men. Smile at them a lot. Stare at their crotches and lick your lips. They need to know you are thinking about sex and are going to want to have fun with them. That will make them attracted to you. When they first ask you out you can back off on the come hither approach and show them your fun personality but on a graduated scale, still give them signs you like sex and you might like sex with them, but you need to also let them know you are interested in the long term and not in a one nighter.
2007-07-12 03:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Toosense3 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
The less you stress about not having a boyfriend the more desirable you will become. It's been my observation that the longer a person remains single, the more interesting, intriguing and mysterious that appear to others. I dated a 55 year old never married guy and he is considered to be super interesting. It's the independent attitude, the super confident persona and the absence of neediness. Women that remain single have the same benefit. You will know yourself better than most and will make better choices. Don't despair--instead embrace the person you are becoming. It's all good!
2007-07-12 02:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that you are a beautiful person on the outside. But alas, it's whats on the inside that really counts. Are you generous? Do you think of others before yourself? Are you honest? These simple traits are a big deal in addition to your exterior beauty, my dear. Consider these facts before you act on attempting a relationship again. Good luck and God bless.
2007-07-12 02:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by mamac_197030 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask guys out, move in on them on dance floors, make first move.
Most guys dont have a clue and minds go balnk and now all scared that idf they make a moove the girl goes all potty saying
hes seeing them as pieces of meat, sex object, hes a prve, claiming sexaul harrasment, laugh etc etc.
so Show you are approachable and kiss and touchable and you like him
2007-07-12 06:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It got nothing to do with how you look. But then in your case maybe it has because most people will look at the person as a whole .You probably put people off with your own self importance.
As my husbands said you can have nice wrapping paper but a naff present.
Look to the inside........Others will if you don't scare them away
2007-07-12 02:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by ace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you focus on your looks this much in your usual interactions with people? Maybe the guys you like need to see more evidence of a personality and interests beyond finding a date.
2007-07-12 02:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by MM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is, is that guys see u but some will only see the outside and think id like to shag that! there are some who will like ur looks and think ur maybe outa there league and some will just think ur shallow as u seem to know ur pretty and show off about it. one day u will find someone who will love u and to be honest do u really want someone who likes u cus ur pretty that dont come in to it if they really like u as one day u will lose those looks and then what??!!
2007-07-12 03:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by colette b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you are going on about how beautiful you are and how much you get complimented, you sound like a very INSECURE person to me.. all you have to remember is looks are not everything and boys dont always go for looks its all about personality too.. be happy with yourself and love yourself and others will love u back =)
2007-07-12 02:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by kixXx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know, right? he is awesome, his music, everything is perfect. it's such a shame people make those stupid nose jokes about him and that they totally think he is terrible just because of that stupid court case. But he'll always live on as the king of pop, and that's all that matters. your obsession is definitely, positively normal. lol! Yours truly, Linz P.S. what was your question? P.P.S. one day maybe you will get to give him a hug; never lose hope!!!! ^_^
2016-05-20 08:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are as attractive as you say you are, maybe guys think that you're out of their league. and waist and bust sizes don't really matter. guys don't actually go around measuring women. If you are always dressing well, maybe step it down a notch and just go for a pair of jeans and a t- shirt and look a bit more attainable.
2007-07-12 02:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by the man 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋