he's home visiting for two weeks right now. well he's got one more week left. i spent 2 days and 2 nights with him. after i came back home from being with him he text me n told me he could never be with me n he doesnt wanna see me again. we had plans for him to come to my house for dinner and i was gonna go with him to his sisters house and we were gonna go here and there...
he's always saying "i know you cant wait 15 months" and i tell him im gonna wait he says "we'll see how long that lasts"..... is this the reason he's pushing me away?? or does he really just not love me anymore?
he leaves in november for iraq. he's here for one more week and a half and he's wasting time that we could be spending together becuase we may not see each other again before he deploys...
is there anything i can say or do to change this? i'm going crazy.......
2007-07-12 02:29:21 · 5 answers · asked by danyel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a friend that did this to a girl because he didn't want the pain of losing her while he was gone. So many of his friends had lost thier wives and families to someone else because they couldn't wait and it just hurt the guys so much that he decided he would end it before he got hurt.
2007-07-12 02:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted: the two nights that you spent together. Breaking up by text message is tacky but was probably done to prevent you from reminding him about those nights. Allow yourself some cry time and then find a keeper.
2007-07-12 02:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by MICHAEL R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not tell me which you would be able to love somebody once you're cheating on him/her on the comparable time. If relaxing your very own desires is extra substantial to you than your boyfriend, properly finally end up 365 adult males so as that those 12 months would be finished of relaxing. Your desires could be fulfilled in such lots of distinctive procedures. Why in the international do you think of you easily ought to cheat? think of two times or maybe thrice in the past you're making that risky, dating-breaking determination of having intercourse with another guy for the period of his absence. don't be stupid; there are issues that all of us recognize are unfavorable and that should on no account be completed.
2016-10-20 23:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men when deploying push their wives and gfs aside its a way to not hurt them
2007-07-12 04:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"good-bye"
2007-07-12 02:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋